We all in this life go through the good, the bad, and the WTF "Situational Experiences". These S.E. are the platform of how we learn, grow, and eventualy heal. Humans are Survivors! Bet you've never been told to lay down and give up! Its in our genetics. 'Fight or Flight' Over time we come to understand our process of Self Healing. We achieve this by recognizing what thought process wound and those that heal.

The mind is a remarkable tool. It all comes down to personal choice.
Are my choices making me happy or horrable?

Personaly, Healthy & Happy my choice.

In the grand scheme of things we continue to have life experiences, age and wisdom just aid us in how we flow through them.

the trouble is we do servive mutch to the annoyance of some the secret is to be happy in spite of them