I meet a guy. He is educated, decent and is fun to be with. He is working though his salary is small but he has a car and stays in 2 rooms apartment I really see him as a good guy. Recently discovered that he promised a lady marriage because the lady has masters degree and she is financially ok. He doesn't love the lady he is just attracted to her because of money. He is also coming close to my gril friend and he wants to find out if is she is finacally ok. I can see it in him that he is looking a rich lady for marriage . What do you think about a man like this can he make a good husband?. What if the lady becomes poor tomorrow will he still love her or will he start looking another rich woman.

Havent you answered your own question?

So knowing that he still wants another, you don't mind? But I'm sure if you weren't into him, you'd not have asked. You must like him quite a bit if you're willing to put up with that.

Let's use logical deduction...It's fun, don't worry, it is fairly easy.

Alright, so just for the sake of our experiment we'll use letters...Alright, so guy A wants to marry someone for money.

Well, I mean...That's fairly deduced right there.

we really haven't heard HIS intentions or interests simply a secondhand assumption about those or 2nd hand info

either way - it is what it is

what you do about will hopefully be in your best interests

I don't predict the future

Ah, sexual equality at last!

Well if he is trying to start a harem
It sounds like he better get a better job !
{snicker}

I've never understood how some people can be so shallow, and make relationships all about money.

really

ya I think I remember reading that harems went out of style when the economy tanked...lol

And bigger place. Last harem I had....

Yeah. Look what it did to Anna Nicole Smith.

appears he is actually looking for a rare type of harem
- of sugar mommas and that just might work for him if he
could pull it off

doesn't sound much like "harem material" if you ask me tho'