As u get older u are afraid of relationship?true/false

"why is it hard to find the right person"

To answer the question in the title, you don't find the right person. Instead, you become the right person.

to find right person it depends on u, as no man i this world is perfect. Just u need to adjust urself.

Yes do we really deserve mr/miss right?

Self examination is important I believe.

Why do we think we deserve someone or some ideal above our own lowliness?

Maybe I deserve a crack whore?

If we truly want somebody then surely we must lower our standard.

I think we need to change our expectations to what we deserve, not what we want.

I admire your humility, but I don't think any person should be a martyr for humility's sake. If we all assumed that attitude towards ourselves in life, the reflective and humble people would not get anything and the oblivious, boasting social bullies would get everything because they're too self oblivious, proud, and chicken to admit their fallacies. Why should the nice people who have the courage to admit their fallacies let the ignorant people get everything, knowing they won't appreciate or realize their blessings in life anyway?

I say find someone who makes you happy and whom you make happy. There is nothing to gain from being a martyr. Contrarily, martyrdom is the worst type of abuse: self abuse. None is more painful.

why is it hard to find the right person?


-If you can't find the right person, try to find the left person who knows... as the saying goes opposite poles attracts each other, right or left?

As u get older u are afraid of relationship?true/false?

-False...all relationship are risky, it's just about on how you handle it.