My ex girl is beginning to use my son as a weapon to hurt me. I've made the necessary steps to get access but it's so long a road. Alot of people just say it's just because she's having her attention distracted and thats probaly why she's all of a sudden distant. any advice?

look, i know what your going through, my ex will do anything to hurt me and she knows the only way is my daughter. you need t fight tooth and nail for you son and dont give up. no matter what. not saying all women, cause i know men that do it to, but ex's have the tendency to be mean as hell and do what they can to hurt you. and the best way is to mess with your child or not let you see them. like i said,. no matter what or how bad it hurts, dont stop fighting for you kid.

Thanks man. Don't worry about the giving up stuff. He's a year old and I've been there every minute I can. Support and love. I love being a dad and she will not take that away. It's tuff though when the 2 of you are trying to fix things and right up to a month ago we were intimate though living seperate. It's heartbreaking and I guess I feel sorta like I was nieave. Kind of a sex tool until better options came along. I gotta just focus on what is important. Kai.

Going through it myself. My, soon to be ex, has been telling
my kids to enjoy Mom now because in a couple of months they
wont ever see me again. Just keep fighting to your last breath.
And don't ever give up.

no matter what she does hes yours and no one can take that away. as much as my ex hates me she cant change the fact my daughter is a small version of me. and she hates it. the only way to hurt me is to not let me see her. and im fighting with her right now threating her with court and other things if she dont let me have my daughter when im supposed to. she dont wanna let me see her cause she knows my lil girl wants to be with me and not with her. it kills me to see her start screaming when ihave to take her home. she tells me she wants to stay with me. best way to break a big man like me down is to let me see my daughter cry