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Topic: Would you go out on a date with a person you not attracted t
searchingsearching's photo
Tue 06/11/13 08:24 PM
if there's nothing to gain, then there's nothing to lose. I'd do it. why does it always boil down to physical attractiveness? why do we always let our shallow side win?

ridewytepony's photo
Tue 06/11/13 09:19 PM
Ya! Ya, I would, then I would sex them in the can! and tell everybody!
Cuz I'm a people pleaser, and I dont like to hurt there feelings.
unless it seems there mean, then we'll just go Dutch on the bill and have sex in the can, then ill tell everybodytongue2

kaz7x70's photo
Wed 06/12/13 12:55 PM
definitely go,,you're attracted to his personality n company,,that's a great foundation for friendship at least,,but be CLEARLY honest that you consider him a friend only,,you dont date a friend, its just 'getting together, or hanging out, sharing company' or SOMETHING,,ANYTHING but a DATE!! n if you're attracted to these important features ya never know what the future can hold,,some of the best relationships are laid on these foundations,,take it slow,,n BE CLEAR it's JUST FRIENDS. have fun n enjoy the journey!

Momoiro_Usagi_7's photo
Wed 06/12/13 12:59 PM

Was wondering if I would go out on a date with a person I wasn't attracted to, if I enjoyed he's compony & loved he's personality?

I couldn't come up with an answer to this question, instead further questions come forth,

I asked myself: if I were to go out, what would be my intention, since i'm not attracted to him?

If I won't, why not cause the date won't be such a waste after all since I enjoy he's compony & love he's personality?

Then onother question crossed my mind: Is the date always viewed as a potential relationship or its time allocated to be shared with someone, inspite of how one feels about the next part, as long one is willing to avail him/her self?

What are your views on these questions folks?
(hope i'm making sense cause I asked too many questions at once, since one question led to onother)



Nope, did that and he got hurt!When feeling are involved and you don't share the same feeling ...it always ends up badly!

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Wed 06/12/13 01:00 PM

Was wondering if I would go out on a date with a person I wasn't attracted to, if I enjoyed he's compony & loved he's personality?

I couldn't come up with an answer to this question, instead further questions come forth,

I asked myself: if I were to go out, what would be my intention, since i'm not attracted to him?

If I won't, why not cause the date won't be such a waste after all since I enjoy he's compony & love he's personality?

Then onother question crossed my mind: Is the date always viewed as a potential relationship or its time allocated to be shared with someone, inspite of how one feels about the next part, as long one is willing to avail him/her self?

What are your views on these questions folks?
(hope i'm making sense cause I asked too many questions at once, since one question led to onother)



You're in denial that you are attracted to him.
Otherwise you would not be so interested in him.

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