I have a problem with trust,and comitment

Your issues with trust & fear of commitment must be the fruits of your past. (we all are products of our past, one way or the other) Just don't let those issues impact negatively on you future relationships & compromise you of great experiences.

Rather find ways to work on them before moving forth. You've already taken the first step by acknowledging that "you having issues"
That's a first good step in finding help, think you should carry on from that step by consulting relevent people who specialize in helping people overcome such issues.

All the best to you in finding help!!

It's ironic that the hardest things to let go of tend to be the ones we never held.


You only control what you do. Who you chose to trust is the only thing you control in the situation.

When you choose to trust no one to avoid the one who might screw you, you've only screwed yourself out of knowing all the ones who won't.

I used to have trouble with that when I was younger so I just stayed single, till almost 29.
I felt so complete in my own life, so when your alone it feels like your defence is impregnable
Its a positive way of not having your confidence shaken and you watch friends go through hurt & they
admire you because none of that applys to you. them your so proud that your afraid of any woman
getting one up on you , publicly played for a fool.
I think my first thoughts of having a trust was to go and sleep with two girls first just so you were the a:sshole first just encase! so listen to this.

Dr please help me, I know you understand,
there's a time device inside my head, I a self-destructive man
and there's a red , under my bed,
and there's a little yellow man in my head,
and then he said "your not going crazy, your just a bit sad,
Cause there's a man in ya, knawin' ya, tearin' ya into two,

Self-destroyer, wreck your health
destroy your friends, destroy yourself,
the time device of self-destruction,
light the fuse, and start eruption.

so realy we all have iner battles with a bad wolf and a good wolf fighting inside us. DO YOU NO which one
wins?????? the one you feed!

I sure hope your not doing meth or coc that sh☆t will f:uck you up
Best of luck son
And my your god go with you,

Welcome to the club

yep i'm in ur club