Topic: Relationship advice
mzsandra's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:38 AM
Who really believes a 14 yr relationship can last between a man and woman with the woman being the older one? Needs some great advice. Willing to chat with anyone.

lynnleeds's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:43 AM
yes it can last.i know many of more than 14 yrs with the woman being older.age is a number.love is a human need and doesn't know age colour or anything else.if anyone is lucky to find it no matter what the age gap,all power to them.long live love.

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Sat 06/01/13 10:47 AM

Who really believes a 14 yr relationship can last between a man and woman with the woman being the older one? Needs some great advice. Willing to chat with anyone.



Yes, I am sure it can. I am sure it has happened before. I think that maybe a factor would be the amount of age difference though. Also, it seems like age stereotypes don't really apply as much in modern times as they did in past times. Many people look and act younger than they really are.

lynnleeds's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:50 AM
my mum was older than my stepdad and they were together over 40 yrs before he died.so yep am all for it.

mzsandra's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:54 AM
I love that advice but I'm so scared to be one of those ladies who become insecure bcuz u have to keep up with the ladies that are more on his age level so he won't sway away. I've seen it with someone else relationship. She became real miserable but I also know it depends on the man too. Especially if he is not giving her attention or being the man she needs.

mzsandra's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:58 AM
Well it's 14 years. He's 24 and I'll be 38 this year.

lynnleeds's photo
Sat 06/01/13 10:59 AM
that can happen even if you have a guy same age lol so quit flapping and enjoy the moment.if the guy loves you and chose you as you are then he aint seeking younger women.some men prefer some maturity in a woman.you don't have to change to keep up with young women.be yourself.after all isn't that the person he fell for in the first place?:smile:

mzsandra's photo
Sat 06/01/13 11:06 AM
U have really made me smile Lynn. I guess I just needed the reassurance. Thx a lot. I appreciate it.

lynnleeds's photo
Sat 06/01/13 11:10 AM
comes from a lifetime of different experiences:smile: am glad ya feeling better about things.every relationship has precisely the same fears no matter what the ages.am sure your guy thinks you're the best for him.i think he made a good choice:smile: good luck to ya both.stop worrying.has he got a brother for me:laughing: