Who, meeeee?!?!

Maybe

wtf is wrong with you people. the dude comes on here with a serious real life situation, seeking some sound advice, and you jump on him worse than the posts on the religious threads

dude, if you are looking for a ltr than juggling two women at a time is not a good start. having a preconceived notion that all bisexual people are two people and unstable is another start on the wrong foot. meeting a person you would like to spend the rest of your life with isn't easy. you should not try to conform them to what you believe, how you live, or where you think you want to go. being with another person should EDIFY you, and you should edify them

you should be a better person because she is in your life. i guarantee i guarantee that your ltr will work when you both edify each other

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Have you checked with them to see if they even want an extra relationship once having you? They might just be sharing that they have no problem going both ways to be open with you on the way they think.

open talks are the best way to find out