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Shyamz Joined Wed 08/24/11 Posts: 55	Mon 05/27/13 02:50 AM
what is it best to say when starting a conversation with someone. will a simple 'hi' be enough?? I do prefer that.

Someone2callmyown Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 870	Wed 05/29/13 02:52 AM
what is it best to say when starting a conversation with someone. will a simple 'hi' be enough?? I do prefer that. Wait until they talk to you is the easiest way.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Wed 05/29/13 05:05 AM
If you mean online then no, a simple hi isn't enough. I don't reply to those messages but if you are talking about in the real world, it depends. If it's someone that I know then it's fine but if it's a stranger, then I'm not sure what to say back to that but it obviously depends on the situation.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 05/29/13 05:48 AM
what is it best to say when starting a conversation with someone. will a simple 'hi' be enough?? I do prefer that. The best way to begin is very similar to how you stated your OP, honest and communicative...A simple "Hi" can make it seem like you are just perusing profile pics and playing a numbers game or worse, make you seem glib and insincere...Before you email someone, read their profile....You can usually find a conversation starter there....Good luck Shy!

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 05/29/13 05:52 PM
If your talking on line then the first conversation I keep simple like always find there strong quality that appeal to you, honest, loyal, friendly, funny ,no penis, age appropriate maybee, that sort of thing, then complement on them Then I say nice pic, do you have any different kinds of one's (dont say naked) then see what they say..lol.. But if your talking about in person and I'm attracted ,I just say, hey you got any naked picture's I could look at. No I dont say that...I'd say nice bum were ya from..lol

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 05/29/13 07:01 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Wed 05/29/13 07:01 PM
If your talking on line then the first conversation I keep simple like always find there strong quality that appeal to you, honest, loyal, friendly, funny ,no penis, age appropriate maybee, that sort of thing, then complement on them Then I say nice pic, do you have any different kinds of one's (dont say naked) then see what they say..lol.. But if your talking about in person and I'm attracted ,I just say, hey you got any naked picture's I could look at. No I dont say that...I'd say nice bum were ya from..lol so, just to clarify....is it that YOU don't have a penis? or that you don;t want the woman you're talking to have a penis? inquiring minds want to know :)

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 05/29/13 07:13 PM
You always want to check for that first.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 05/29/13 07:18 PM
You always want to check for that first. if you were responding to me? yes, I agree lol

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14981	Wed 05/29/13 07:26 PM
A "Hi" is fine with me. I have gotten Long messages that looked like they had been copied and pasted to me.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 05/29/13 08:40 PM
You always want to check for that first. if you were responding to me? yes, I agree lol Have you bin sippn there Sweetestgirl, for some reason since the beginning I just feel a strong connection between you and wine....white wine? Personally a dont beleive he was corresponding to anybody, it was just a comment in regards to my Statement. That was to watch out for splittails with hammers, very undesirable! speaking of hammers I will make my privite pic public & unleash the beast and answer you other guestion for half an hour...gay guys need not apply.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Wed 05/29/13 08:52 PM
I recommend sending them your nudes... it is quite an ice breaker... although totally untested I am convinced the theory is sound

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 05/29/13 09:21 PM
You always want to check for that first. if you were responding to me? yes, I agree lol Have you bin sippn there Sweetestgirl, for some reason since the beginning I just feel a strong connection between you and wine....white wine? Personally a dont beleive he was corresponding to anybody, it was just a comment in regards to my Statement. That was to watch out for splittails with hammers, very undesirable! speaking of hammers I will make my privite pic public & unleash the beast and answer you other guestion for half an hour...gay guys need not apply. no wine tonight! :) and I was talking to Mark....but that's OK gee I learn so much on here - gay guys don't have penises? Guess they'll be surprised to find that out...