Topic: FOR MEN!! ABOUT YOUR GF/WIFE (2ND)SITUATION
welsean's photo
Mon 05/27/13 08:11 AM
what if your gf/ wife had a secret on you... She entered a secret relationship and got pregnant on the other man .. But you love her so much ..what will you do ?

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Mon 05/27/13 08:21 AM
no comments,,, depends on the particular circumstances

ranger8998's photo
Mon 05/27/13 08:22 AM
Will forgive her and love her more. But will make her to promise not to go again with anyone anymore. Because only love can win and can change others.

welsean's photo
Mon 05/27/13 08:35 AM
nice thoughts!!

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Mon 05/27/13 08:53 AM
if she got in a secret relationship with another, there was a problem with the relationship to begin with. if she got pregnant, than she is either careless, or has no respect for the original relationship

i guarantee i guarantee that you can't turn a whore into a housewife

adding another man's child to the original relationship will bring a lifetime of heartache. the child deserves to be in a loving relationship. depending on the circumstances, the woman who cheated does not, the second man does not (if he knew the woman was married and slept with her anyway) and the first man may or may not depending on how he was treating his wife

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

oldsage's photo
Mon 05/27/13 09:03 AM
Know of a situation like this. Child will never know as fart as the guy is concerned. If mom tells, it will be out of her guilt. Her choice, keep the secret or admit she was NEVER a good wife, from the beginning. After 3 kids, she finally left. I respect the dad for how he has handled it. His concern is for the kids, hope she is the same.

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 05/27/13 09:03 AM

what if your gf/ wife had a secret on you... She entered a secret relationship and got pregnant on the other man .. But you love her so much ..what will you do ?


I would make sure that it wasn't mine with a DNA test.

Apart from that I'm not sure. You are asking a purely hypothetical question about a situation that I've never been in with a person that I've never even met. In essence though, you are asking if I would take someone back after she went with somebody else and I might but it would depend very much on the situation.