I know there is a purpose to this mutual match finder... and i have like 17 matches.... does that mean ppl have matched up to me?
HELP!

Was thinking the same myself GEHC

and, is this kinda like email.... I mean, when i get an email i try to respond to everyone unless they are perverted emails...

then i jump right on them JK

no seriously, so if i have matches that means ppl have matched up to me? yes? no?

I NEED TO KNOW WHO TO WRITE BACK!!! I'mmm sooo confused

good morning CAT btw

I'm going for the long shot and saying YES they are th ones that have matched up to you. I'm like you I try to answer all emails (unless they are the perverted type) but I have yet to get any emails..

Morning to you to GEHC

what's worse, is you get and email and answer them back, but NO RESPONSE back.

ok what it means is that 17 people have viewed your profile and said yes or maybe.. you dont know who they are.. then you view profiles and maybe by luck you check yes or maybe on their profiles.... then when you sign in those profiles that have matched show up on your matches picture area.. get it? Then you can email them if you want to

yeah I hear ya CAT.....it's frustrating



Karen, firstly, good morning...well, I guess i better get to writing then..I think a lil hello and are inorder for these matches...

and OMG!! is that NUS in the pic w/ you?

Yep thats Nus........... Hes all moved here now started his new job this morning.

OMG!!!!! CONGRATS to you two!!


was it due tot he mutual match finder that helped? or did you two find love b4 the mutual match finder was made?

i had 3 matches wrote all 3 of them one stopped writing me cuz i smoke cigerttes the other never wrote back.. must be my name or something..lmao

LOL noooooooo Nus and I been here and there for a while now.. We just took a leap of faith

I dunno Steve but I wouldn't want to be with anyone that just because I smoked it was a killer in the relationship lol
Unless they were alergic or something I mean geezzzzzzz

ok, so under new matches...those are ppl who have said yes or maybe??? are you telling me i have 17 pages of ppl that want to meet me??? that can't be right.

i was sending messages to everyone on the mutual list, yanno, just a lil hello... and one of my good friends that made a match to me and I talk to all the time is deactivated


Steve, someone that shallow isn't worth the ink on the paper... sorry to hear that though.


Karen.. I'm happy for you and NUS and please tell him Hippie says hi

Mstry 17 pages or 17 people?

if it's under the MUTUAL MATCHES then yes mstry... however there is a section that shows EVERYONE is male or female who is on JSH that COULD be a match in general

MORNING ALL. I'VE HAD SEVERAL MATCHES OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS. I HAVE WROTE BACK TO ALL OF THEM. OUT OF APPRX. 10 GUYS, DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY WROTE ME BACK?????????????? ONLY ONE. SO, IN MY OPINION,IF YOU CLICK YES OR MAYBE, THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THAT PERSON, YOU SHOULD RESPOND TO THE E-MAIL. EVEN IF YOU CHANGED YOUR MIND, AND DON'T WANT TO KNOW ANY MORE, A PERSON SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL ENOUGH TO WRITE BACK AND AKNOWELDGE THE FACT THAT YOU WROTE TO THEM. BUT, IN THE REAL WORLD, SOME PEOPLE JUST DON'T CARE. HEY, ANYBODY WANT SOME COFFEE.??????????????

morning ROmeo *dang it where is the lil fluttering my eyelashes icon*

good morning SWEET.... I'd love some coffee