Topic: appearance or quality
glowlove2013's photo
Tue 05/14/13 04:37 PM
No matter how much I love a guy's appearance if he don't possess the qualities I want in a man. I can't fall in love with him . Likewise a guy may not be too attractive but if possess the qualities I want in a man sure I will fall in love even deeply in love. So to me love is a gradual process and it can be very strong if your partner know how to care,respect,appreciate and adore you .I don't believe in love at first sight I believe in love at gradual sight lol.

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Tue 05/14/13 04:42 PM
A man has to possess the qualities I want in a man. Looks without anything to go with it, is next to nothing.

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/14/13 04:43 PM
Same here. Looks are nice but personality is what makes me throw in the towel.

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Tue 05/14/13 05:00 PM

Same here. Looks are nice but personality is what makes me throw in the towel.


Then you are not speaking for MOST men.laugh :tongue:

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 05/15/13 05:36 AM
I'm visual and very sexual so I might be good with it if she couldn't talk , mental stimulation
may start from words, but this is a double edge sword
I can be very simulated from sensual touch and vision
and in the end its was those words that were fake.

I talking girlfriend can be overrated!!spock

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Wed 05/15/13 06:24 AM
I need both. I must be attracted in all ways to fall in love with someone, it has to be complete. The physical attraction must be there with the attraction to his personality.

it is true tho, that a very handsome man becomes less so very quickly if he turns out tot be a whiny nag or waaay bossy

same can probably be said of women which is why pony back there wants a mute girlfriend ...good grieflaugh whoa

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Wed 05/15/13 08:05 AM
Yeah, a lady could have a totally hot body..but if her character is messed up, then am not signing up for that crap. Beauty without character is worthless

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 05/15/13 08:13 AM

I need both. I must be attracted in all ways to fall in love with someone, it has to be complete. The physical attraction must be there with the attraction to his personality.

it is true tho, that a very handsome man becomes less so very quickly if he turns out tot be a whiny nag or waaay bossy

same can probably be said of women which is why pony back there wants a mute girlfriend ...good grieflaugh whoa



Well well I didn't realize we could choose both ..lol..

Naaa, you no I like my chose here . So insted of my usual goodlooker 7/8 -10...I've upgraded

This model up to a ten on fisical appearance.

She is also very sensual & sexual with a beautiful smile and talks in volume with her eyes, I'm falling in

love, and this non verbal model acutely, but not surprisingly, values much higher than the "chaty cathy

model. This is what's known as a win win situation. smitten

Already.