Jessie, don't be sour at us for listing qualities we would appreciate in a partner. It's only a thread, and that was the question at hand. The question was not...what do you have to offer a partner.

I think most men look for similar qualities that I see listed by these ladies...honesty, honor, patients, family values...don't they?

Surely you yourself aren't indicating that you would be so selfless as to want to shower all your love and affection on just anyone, no matter how mean spirited, dishonorable, dishonest or impatient she may be. You must also wish for a woman with some redeeming qualities...besides your obvious desire for someone selfless?