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xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Thu 04/25/13 01:05 PM
Not much of a secret really, An attractive woman is easier to convince that she is beautiful. If she didn't already know it. I suspect a certain one already knows.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Thu 04/25/13 01:08 PM
Not much of a secret really, An attractive woman is easier to convince that she is beautiful. If she didn't already know it. I suspect a certain one already knows. kind of like mowing a lawn, That's already been cut. Life is easier that way.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Thu 04/25/13 01:26 PM
All women are beautiful. Some of them just don't know it, because they are too busy comparing one kind of beauty againt another to realize it.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Thu 04/25/13 01:29 PM
Sounds like a very complicated situation.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 01:45 PM
I've had friends that have had that issue. It's usually not actually their breasts. If she had large breast, she would probably be self conscience of those too. A man telling her she's attractive is not what makes a woman feel attractive. It's something within that makes her feel uncomfortable with her own body and the only way to work it out is from within. So in the scenario described above should we never complement her as its just Falling on death ears? I don't imagine she doesn't appreciate being complimented just like anyone else. It's certainly not going to hurt her self esteme any, especially if she feels you're being sincere. But self image, at least for most women, has little to do with how others see them...it's how they see themselves. For example, one would think that women being paid to desplay their beauty has ample proof that she is attractive, even millions of dollars worth, but models are notorious for having more insecurities than anyone. Intresting analogy regarding the models, I was not aware of these common inner battles that many of them face, despite that fact that I was aware of the " dog eat dog" industry that @extreme speaks of. Starting to make sense . If your a 10/10 always up against 10 s and had some "constructed criticism" one could See how that would affect someone Yes! complements are for FREE! Sincere you say, well I cant speak for others, I , myself have always been both frank & ernest to all woman. That's right, in Vancouver i'm Frank and in Edmonton i'm Ernest ....symbol hit.. X-girlfriend would tell people "dont laugh, you will only encourage him! Apparently, I don't need encouragement Fact.. comedies are some of the "darkest" people in their private lives , many suffer from clinical depression ect Yes

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Thu 04/25/13 01:54 PM
That's right, in Vancouver i'm Frank and in Edmonton i'm Ernest ....symbol hit.. LOL May I be Frank about something with you? " No I'm Ernest"

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Thu 04/25/13 02:14 PM Edited by 1Cynderella on Thu 04/25/13 02:17 PM
I've had friends that have had that issue. It's usually not actually their breasts. If she had large breast, she would probably be self conscience of those too. A man telling her she's attractive is not what makes a woman feel attractive. It's something within that makes her feel uncomfortable with her own body and the only way to work it out is from within. So in the scenario described above should we never complement her as its just Falling on death ears? I don't imagine she doesn't appreciate being complimented just like anyone else. It's certainly not going to hurt her self esteme any, especially if she feels you're being sincere. But self image, at least for most women, has little to do with how others see them...it's how they see themselves. For example, one would think that women being paid to desplay their beauty has ample proof that she is attractive, even millions of dollars worth, but models are notorious for having more insecurities than anyone. Intresting analogy regarding the models, I was not aware of these common inner battles that many of them face, despite that fact that I was aware of the " dog eat dog" industry that @extreme speaks of. Starting to make sense . If your a 10/10 always up against 10 s and had some "constructed criticism" one could See how that would affect someone Yes! complements are for FREE! Sincere you say, well I cant speak for others, I , myself have always been both frank & ernest to all woman. That's right, in Vancouver i'm Frank and in Edmonton i'm Ernest ....symbol hit.. X-girlfriend would tell people "dont laugh, you will only encourage him! Apparently, I don't need encouragement Fact.. comedies are some of the "darkest" people in their private lives , many suffer from clinical depression ect Yes It seems a parallel could be drawn between comedians and models, n'est-ce pas?

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 02:42 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? What makes them better lovers? Working harder to please you because they feel they're lacking something? How did I miss this . I just happen to agree with the first part on solidarity alone. But the second part is not only wrong on any kind of general level, bit is pretty tacky to say even if you feel that's what you have personally experienced. You would voice that opinion here? I sure hope she is not watching this. As it was just xtreme and myself last night ...iwas just playing the " set up guy" in comedic terms this would be known as "the straight guy" (eg; Ed m. /Jonny Carson) the one that sets up the jokes Obviously an imperfected routine @extreme take the bait next time man! Your killin me....lol...

snuggles7990 Joined Thu 04/25/13 Posts: 3	Thu 04/25/13 02:43 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? I'm a full chested woman and I dunno if that's true. I love to please and have nothing to prove except for both of us to be pleased.

snuggles7990 Joined Thu 04/25/13 Posts: 3	Thu 04/25/13 02:43 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? I'm a full chested woman and I dunno if that's true. I love to please and have nothing to prove except for both of us to be pleased.

snuggles7990 Joined Thu 04/25/13 Posts: 3	Thu 04/25/13 02:46 PM
I agree completely. Its all about confidence.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 02:47 PM
That's right, in Vancouver i'm Frank and in Edmonton i'm Ernest ....symbol hit.. LOL May I be Frank about something with you? " No I'm Ernest" Aahhhhaaaahhaaa thats a good one, doudle entendre going on

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 02:52 PM
I've had friends that have had that issue. It's usually not actually their breasts. If she had large breast, she would probably be self conscience of those too. A man telling her she's attractive is not what makes a woman feel attractive. It's something within that makes her feel uncomfortable with her own body and the only way to work it out is from within. So in the scenario described above should we never complement her as its just Falling on death ears? I don't imagine she doesn't appreciate being complimented just like anyone else. It's certainly not going to hurt her self esteme any, especially if she feels you're being sincere. But self image, at least for most women, has little to do with how others see them...it's how they see themselves. For example, one would think that women being paid to desplay their beauty has ample proof that she is attractive, even millions of dollars worth, but models are notorious for having more insecurities than anyone. Intresting analogy regarding the models, I was not aware of these common inner battles that many of them face, despite that fact that I was aware of the " dog eat dog" industry that @extreme speaks of. Starting to make sense . If your a 10/10 always up against 10 s and had some "constructed criticism" one could See how that would affect someone Yes! complements are for FREE! Sincere you say, well I cant speak for others, I , myself have always been both frank & ernest to all woman. That's right, in Vancouver i'm Frank and in Edmonton i'm Ernest ....symbol hit.. X-girlfriend would tell people "dont laugh, you will only encourage him! Apparently, I don't need encouragement Fact.. comedies are some of the "darkest" people in their private lives , many suffer from clinical depression ect Yes It seems a parallel could be drawn between comedians and models, n'est-ce pas? No dout! There's a huge list of comic's ,10 mabee 12 of the top of my head....shocking

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 03:03 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? I'm a full chested woman and I dunno if that's true. I love to please and have nothing to prove except for both of us to be pleased. Well mabee I went off half cocked! Not having anything one to compare to. Good thing I believe in equal opportunity!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15135	Thu 04/25/13 03:04 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 04/25/13 03:05 PM
I've had friends that have had that issue. It's usually not actually their breasts. If she had large breast, she would probably be self conscience of those too. A man telling her she's attractive is not what makes a woman feel attractive. It's something within that makes her feel uncomfortable with her own body and the only way to work it out is from within. So True!

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 03:05 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? I'm a full chested woman and I dunno if that's true. I love to please and have nothing to prove except for both of us to be pleased. You're have a good attitude

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 03:47 PM
I have seen a florida panther when I was a boy. I'm not 100% if there are any left now. They were almost extinct 30 years ago. thought you said there was a 12/1 ratio in "favor" of the opposite in your city , you poor, poor boy..lol.. Thinking of changing my user name to Vancougarhover , to be Frank what do u think?

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Thu 04/25/13 05:23 PM
Would you like my ernest opinion? Or would you prefer for me to be frank?

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 05:47 PM
I find flat chested woman are better loves, like they feel they've got something to prove. What do u think? What makes them better lovers? Working harder to please you because they feel they're lacking something? Yes, thats what the statement says. To quote an old adage ; if it aint broke dont fix it . Don't no for sure, statement says, its (like) they have Something to prove. English is a beautiful language I will admit there may have been a couple that were mediocre at best but sex is much like pizza "When its good its real good and when it bad, well, its still pretty good...and vis versa.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 04/25/13 05:55 PM
Would you like my ernest opinion? Or would you prefer for me to be frank? ..lol....ur a smart n funny guy ....true.. but the only one massaging your ego is another guy ....lol.....