i asked myself this question today, what do woman seek from a relationship? Obvioussly, it varies from person to person, but i would like to hear some thoughts on it. financial security?, kids?, a strong male figure at home?, a macho?, a lover? be honest, let it come from the heart, mind, soul, from instincts, whatever. lol. i later want to post, asking man what they want from girls in relationships.

For me it is the lover and the companion. Someone with whom we can enjoy our time together with lots of exploring the world and each other, seeking and giving pleasure sexually and in all areas of our time together, enjoying life in general, sharing this life experience together, getting the most from the time we have here, etc...

I seek the one who can unlock the secrets of my soul, as only they can, who can love every part of me, accepting all within and without and seeing it as true beauty.
My soulmate, on every level.

Or so I wish, says Rapunzel from her tower.

Beautiful; Life may take a lot things from us all, but Life cannot take away our old or current beautiful dreams. May yours come true.

i have to say is that
you can have more than on soulmate
in this lifetime but only one lifemate

ok this is what i would be happy with
a man that is willing to treat me right
with respect

i dont like macho men.. they turn me off
as for financially im not looking for someone to give
me a castle for i would be very happy
to live in the woods in a log cabin ( that seriously is my dream)

there was a guy that i met yrs ago
he went out to eat for every one of his meals
( its cheaper to eat at home)
and he drove a dang jag.. it was nice car
but i wasent impressed

what i would like is have a man that will have a strong connection

which i had met someone like that
but i have to tell you..

there was this guy that i was with for 3yrs
he had a great heart and soul ( he died 6yrs ago)
but he was emotionally abusive

but way after he had died i met this one guy
that fit the same description as the old bf
even had the same freaken doctor


got rid of him shortly after
for i wasent going to put with up with his crap
he still contacts me every so often by text
but i dont respond back

What I would like to find in a relationship is a very special bond with someone who's my soul mate and lover.

I'm seeking a relationship full of humor and happy and love, but can withstand anger, sadness and exasperation too.

I seek a relationship that I can believe in, with someone I can believe in, and who believes in me. I want someone I trust without question and for him to feel he can trust me without thought.

I seek a relationship that's going to take work from both of us to accommodate each other's needs, to keep it fresh and to keep it moving forward, but that's so worth it we'll both relish the effort we make together.

I seek a relationship built on mutual commitment, and exists in the knowledge that neither of us will give up at the first sign of adversity...or the second...or the third.

With the soul mate and lover I seek, I want a relationship that's OURS.