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ok I have been with this man since august and well we have been having our ups and downs. He's been so stressed out lately because he feels like he is going to loose his daughter, and feels like he will be thrown in jail. Also feels like he will loose his truck and job. I don't know if he is taking everything out on me or what. He's been drunking texting my friend tonight saying he don't want me that all. I am just a good friend to him is what he told her . Well if your sleeping in the same bed and room and having sex what does that mean?
I just want an honest opinion what should i do. i love him and want to be with him. I've been told by friends he still loves and wants to be with me is he just so stressed out that he's only doing it to hurt me? or what i've been told he's not wanting me back ask well also he's mad because i wouldnt move when he wanted me to i had to find out info before i could ever move and i do but how can i get the man i love back to where it should be right at? i also didn't feel ok with moviing because of him being so stressed out because he can't work til he has surgery. |
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At this stage he is just a fwb. If you do hang onto him, do you want to be treated like this the rest of your life? You deserve more, and you certainly have a lot to think about.
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Personally, I would need to be confident that I was on the same page with someone about our relationship before uprooting my life to move into a situation were we were dependent on one another.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Tue 04/09/13 06:58 AM
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ok I have been with this man since august and well we have been having our ups and downs. He's been so stressed out lately because he feels like he is going to loose his daughter, and feels like he will be thrown in jail. Also feels like he will loose his truck and job. I don't know if he is taking everything out on me or what. He's been drunking texting my friend tonight saying he don't want me that all. I am just a good friend to him is what he told her . Well if your sleeping in the same bed and room and having sex what does that mean? I just want an honest opinion what should i do. i love him and want to be with him. I've been told by friends he still loves and wants to be with me is he just so stressed out that he's only doing it to hurt me? or what i've been told he's not wanting me back ask well also he's mad because i wouldnt move when he wanted me to i had to find out info before i could ever move and i do but how can i get the man i love back to where it should be right at? i also didn't feel ok with moviing because of him being so stressed out because he can't work til he has surgery. to the curb and throw his clothes on the yard - he sounds like a total bakstabber and loser - jmho since u asked stress is no excuse and Oh, P.S, I do know exactly what he is. |
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My dear,
Am who loves you WILL confide in you and take solace in your embrace,not bsing you and all that crappy stuff!! Dont make excuses for him...... Know your worth..... Are you so worthless to yourself as to put up with all this?? Imo,theres too much negativity! If you have to rely on his friends to find out what and how he feels about you........!!!?? Just get up,dust yourself off,and walk! Oh,sorry,i mean,RUN! Save yourself! Jmho! |
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ok I have been with this man since august and well we have been having our ups and downs. He's been so stressed out lately because he feels like he is going to loose his daughter, and feels like he will be thrown in jail. Also feels like he will loose his truck and job. I don't know if he is taking everything out on me or what. He's been drunking texting my friend tonight saying he don't want me that all. I am just a good friend to him is what he told her . Well if your sleeping in the same bed and room and having sex what does that mean? I just want an honest opinion what should i do. i love him and want to be with him. I've been told by friends he still loves and wants to be with me is he just so stressed out that he's only doing it to hurt me? or what i've been told he's not wanting me back ask well also he's mad because i wouldnt move when he wanted me to i had to find out info before i could ever move and i do but how can i get the man i love back to where it should be right at? i also didn't feel ok with moviing because of him being so stressed out because he can't work til he has surgery. to the curb and throw his clothes on the yard - he sounds like a total bakstabber and loser - jmho since u asked stress is no excuse and Oh, P.S, I do know exactly what he is. I agree-stress is never good enough excuse!! |
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Coming from a male perspective here you need to cut ties with this dude. I mean....honestly....read what you just wrote and allow it to sink in. If you can't see this guy is all kinds of wrong for you then I wish the best (although I see this ending badly if you stay).
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'"just don't know him anymore"? Sounds like you didn't even begin to know him
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Next!And fast!This can only get worse!
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We all love at a point of life but ask yo self didnt u luv the man who took yo v . I think u did . Is he still wit u no. U luved yo second guy however u did love him even if u stuck wit him u left him. Think abt it where does this leave u its u hurting and taking all his probs on u . What i think his selfish and a guy who begins to go for yo friend gal he got wat he wanted and he is done wit u . Two words 4 u MOVE ON!
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Tue 04/09/13 10:32 AM
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to the curb and throw his clothes on the yard - he sounds like a total bakstabber and loser - jmho since u asked stress is no excuse and Oh, P.S, I do know exactly what he is.  I agree. I wouldn't live with any man, without any real committment, anyway. |
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We all love at a point of life but ask yo self didnt u luv the man who took yo v . I think u did . Is he still wit u no. U luved yo second guy however u did love him even if u stuck wit him u left him. Think abt it where does this leave u its u hurting and taking all his probs on u . What i think his selfish and a guy who begins to go for yo friend gal he got wat he wanted and he is done wit u . Two words 4 u MOVE ON!
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*Stomps in, kicks off mud from boots, takes a seat*
First; get your priorities straight...I'm rather sick of women who complain about men that they shouldn't be having much to do with in the first place. Now, after you have your priorities straight it is time to start looking for someone who appreciates you just as much (And arguably, should be far more) than you appreciate them. After that you should take a list of all of the fake a* men you have been with, this little f*er included and roast that s* over an open fire in the woods and do away with the memory of people who won't remember you. |
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*Stomps in, kicks off mud from boots, takes a seat* First; get your priorities straight...I'm rather sick of women who complain about men that they shouldn't be having much to do with in the first place. Now, after you have your priorities straight it is time to start looking for someone who appreciates you just as much (And arguably, should be far more) than you appreciate them. After that you should take a list of all of the fake a* men you have been with, this little f*er included and roast that s* over an open fire in the woods and do away with the memory of people who won't remember you.  fuggin A Cut your losses, and move on lady 
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so glad i am single i've been single for month and so glad i'm not with him no more i found out while he and i were together he was messing around with our friend and his best friends wife so glad i didn't waste my time being with a crude man like him so glad im done trying to find mr right because there is no such thing right now i just need to make my life better n im also going to start setting the bars up higher.
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Hello sorry to everyone who thought i was looking to start a fight aka you all thinking i was complaing on how men are the worst in the whole world. for starters i wasn't there to complain was just asking for advice and also second have been single for a year and a half now and third also just found my mr wonderful so all in all i found the one who i should be with.
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