How do u feel when u suddenly realise that the person u love most, you missed most is not with you?
Tel me.

Its up to you, my advice is, get over it and move on.

It wasn't love.

However, I'm a fairly logical person.

feels like hammered dog do

Something tells me you're not over her?

Yes u r right.time becomes hard to pas.

Ha ha, you seems to be an interesting person mr.buldog

Yea, i think i should try it.

if someone is that close to you how can they suddenly not be with you and you not realize this? perhaps they weren't as close to you as you thought

@swetest girl... My friend, by the word "sudenly" i mean that when u r trying to be busy at some work and betwen that work u sudenly realize that the person who loved u once upon a time is nt with u now.

@swetest girl... My friend, by the word "sudenly" i mean that when u r trying to be busy at some work and betwen that work u sudenly realize that the person who loved u once upon a time is nt with u now.

I think it depends on how it ended and what the relationship was like. I recently got in touch with an ex girlfriend again after five years and she said that it seemed to her that I am still angry with her and blaming her and I suppose that she is right about that. Doesn't mean that I want her back though or don't want her to be happy and I have mixed feelings when I think about her. I am certainly ready to move on and have been trying to do that since I finished it with her but I have just not been lucky enough to meet anybody since then that was also ready to move on and give a relationship with me a go, so I keep thinking about what I did have and why it didn't work out.

@mr. Taw... I agre with ur opinion. Its somehow like that. The ends determines how you mis her.

I think you might be talking about closure Rindamin...Getting relationship closure is very, very important, especially to the one who did not end it or did want it to end but felt they had no other choice in the matter...Understanding what went wrong is "key" to moving forward...When a person is left with questions, left wondering, they run the risk of being caught in limbo...That means they are stuck with anger, hurt, sadness and a whole lot of other negative feelings....

Understanding = closure...Closure = ability to move forward...

Life is all about experiencing the difference between beliefs & unbelievable.

You are right miss, but what wil u do when u find the key and after that u corect al the mistakes that lead to the end, but after doing this much if it remains al the same then what wil u do.

But this experince sometimes leads to stress and depresion.

Yeah,quite obvious.

Minimise your expectations from others to maximise your satisfaction.

To be happy it is necessary to be satisfied & have peace of mind.

Try to realize the selfishness in your wish to have love from beloved ones.

Why do u expect it back??