i don,t understand why it,s so hard to find someone or to be found.you keep hoping and wishing and put the effort in and seems like you,re hitting a dead end so why keep it up? can someone explain that too me?

I believe that everyone feels the same way when they are actively trying to find someone. Sorry for your frustration.

You know how people always claim that you find someone when you least expect it? I think it's true, but not just because it's an ironic coincidence.

I believe you are never more attractive to the RIGHT person for YOU than when they see you are content in your own element. When we are actively trying to seek someone, I think we often tend to step out of our element....therefore attracting the wrong people or non at all.

I forgot to say...Welcome to Mingle forums! Nice to meet you.