Topic: How Hard is it? || Love
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Thu 03/14/13 04:28 PM
How hard is it really to find your soulmate and best friend? Someone that keeps promises and will stand with you until the end. I was sure, absolutely 100% positive that my ex was that woman. How can someone love you one day and promise to be there for you and not be there the next?

Does true love even exist? Discuss.

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Thu 03/14/13 05:21 PM
Thats the question of the day

Some have found it and some haven't. I have been negative in my thinking lately and so I have attracted that back to me

Think positive and keep thinking about the kind of gal you want to pop into your life and rock it :D

And don't stop dreaming about her love

snafufubar's photo
Sat 03/16/13 04:34 PM
If you're really lucky you find that special one for you.sadly 95 percent of us don't .sorry things didn't work for you mate.

1Cynderella's photo
Sat 03/16/13 06:18 PM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Sat 03/16/13 06:20 PM
Does true love really exist?

I couldn’t tell you. I’m still working on:

What is the TRUE meaning of life?

Which came FIRST, the chicken or the egg?

WHY is life not fair?

What exactly IS a gift horse?

Why DO zebras have stripes?

And most importantly...
WHERE IS Waldo?

ruth74's photo
Sat 03/16/13 06:55 PM
Yes hun, true love does exist...but it's a fragile thing that both partners need to be willing to nurture.
If they invest the time and patience...water it, feed it, and yes do the occasional pruning, that love can grow to a mighty oak.
She just apparently had a black thumb.
*hugs*
You're young...use this as a learning experience, and don't let it taint your future relationships but learn from it and allow yourself to become wiser.

JulieMP's photo
Sun 03/17/13 06:54 PM
true love exists. I am sure of it as I am alive.

soulmates may not be your true love.

When the earth was new, maybe there was only so many souls. People multiplied and souls splintered. Soulmates are maybe not in just one person, to believe or seek that may be futile. There is no other half...but if you are lucky there is a splinter of who you are. Grab on to them, love them and never let them go.

:}

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Sun 03/17/13 08:35 PM

How hard is it really to find your soulmate and best friend? Someone that keeps promises and will stand with you until the end. I was sure, absolutely 100% positive that my ex was that woman. How can someone love you one day and promise to be there for you and not be there the next?

Does true love even exist? Discuss.


Assuming a soul mate exists I would calculate the odds are not stacked in your favor given recent population booms. Probably a few of those yet, I imagine there are many yet untouched by the cruel fate of our society. Well now, that isn't really 100% now, is it? Same way I can have ever-lasting conversations about philosophy with the voices in my head.

No...Outside of a sordid frame of mind it does not exist, then again neither love nor hate truly exist we just exhibit certain mannerisms towards certain content. It is like a puppet master and his puppets, we are the puppets twisted and conformed to alienate the "Different" because it isn't like us.

I'm the fire burning everything you stand for...Good day.smokin