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I don't get involved with people who have cats. Problem solved because those so called medicines do NOT work... If they don't work for you, this is probably the best solution. I make it known upfront that I have pets. If that does not go over well with the potential date, then we're just not a match. |
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Wow. Tough crowd. How so? Sounds like responsible pet owners to me. If you have allergies like I do you have to live with those allergies to be with someone "you can't live without." Sounds like they don't believe they can find a good home for their pet to me. I won't live with a cat...love 'em to death but they make me miserable. Seriously though, that's rough! I think if somoene chooses their cat over their alleged love, it may not be love. Love for your animal is not the same as romantic love. I loved my dog more than most of my friends and if I had a situation like that, I suppose it would really test my love for the man. So, do you think it will comfort to him, as he packs, to know that it was a really hard decision?  Sorry, I could not help myself.  That last statement was a joke.  But seriously, keep in mind that my answer...the serious one anyway...is made by someone who does not cohabitate unless she thinks it's the REAL thing. Falling in love may not happen quickly. How long do you wait to decide to get rid of your pet in favor of your partner? Does he just not come over to your place until you've decided to get rid of your pet? Or, does this all happen in the beginning? If he is serious about seeing where the relationship would go then he will have to avoid my home at first. It does not seem like a lot to ask given I may have to part with my best friend if we fall in love. I would only let her go to a family member or somene I trust anyway. That is an option that I have. The final decision is more difficult for someone without those options. |
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