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I don't know about other email providers, but if you have yahoo email, you have to set your personal information to private if you don't want it to show up on your yahoo profile. I do have a private email address with a well-known company (won't name names incase it's not allowed on here), but it ain't Yahoo. I know Yahoo is one for quite a few scammers. |
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I don't know about other email providers, but if you have yahoo email, you have to set your personal information to private if you don't want it to show up on your yahoo profile.   Heyyyyyyyyyyyy
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seems to me like some people make it their biz to KNOW as much shocking info on a person as they can dih up SHOCK factor maybe ? But yeah ...THAT is a little freaky to me as well I could tell you some real strange stuff like that That I have encountered in my online adventures... And the reason i put my REAL name and info out here now... Is from such similar events BE CAREFUL !  KiK Good Morning Ms Leigh ! How's ManO ? Haven't seen him much in a few days ? I must apologize for not replying sooner to you all. Firstly, my internet was down. Plus, I was dealing with a U.T.I. So, sorry once again :). Thanks Kik . I must think who I know that would be so nutty and dodgy. I only have one in mind, except we don't talk anymore. Actually, thinking about it, funny how it only happened a few month after we broke up. I know why HE would do it, if it IS him, however, it'd be unfair to point fingers. There are certain officials I could go to about it, to help me figure who, you know? It's not weighing on my mind or taking over my life, though, which can only be a good thing. Sad if they need to try and find anything for the shock factor. They really need to get a life. Even if I really hated someone, I'd not stoop so low. I hope they scour away for their "shock factor", because really, there's nothing shocking about me to find, so good luck to whoever is doing it.
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I'm not usually suspicious of anything, unless something gives me a good reason to be. Here's why I feel freaked out. I started talking to someone on a chat forum, and I never give private details about my life, until I get to know a person. This particular person wishes me Happy Birthday on my actual birthday. I have never told him when my birthday is. As I haven't got to know him all that well. I'm sure this would freak ANYONE out? Yesterday, I told my mum all about it, to see what she thought of it, she told me to keep her updated about it. Why would someone I don't even know, know when my birthday is? Just for added info, whenever he talks to me over private e-mails or me and other members on the public forum, some things he says just seem very off. But it's always as if he has a personal gripe with me for some reason. I wish I could explain it better. He just seems very wishy-washy with his words. Like he will say stuff that comes across as over-the-top, or he would always arrange meet-ups and then cancel at the last minute. I don't think I want to stay in contact with him. He is just too dodgy for his own good. We got talking about video-gaming, and I guess we got chatting from that alone. sounds like he background checked you or google searched you. He may be wanting to meet and checking to see of you are real. some simply try to pinpoint a location so they know you are not a scammer from another country. Or if they say they are frm Texas and the phone is in NJ??? that kind of thing. But by doing so, other information becomes available. I wouldn't mind, if it was for a reason like the ones you stated here. There's still the question of the personal gripe he seems to have towards me, though. Why have one towards someone you've never met?
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I'm not usually suspicious of anything, unless something gives me a good reason to be. Here's why I feel freaked out. I started talking to someone on a chat forum, and I never give private details about my life, until I get to know a person. This particular person wishes me Happy Birthday on my actual birthday. I have never told him when my birthday is. As I haven't got to know him all that well. I'm sure this would freak ANYONE out? Yesterday, I told my mum all about it, to see what she thought of it, she told me to keep her updated about it. Why would someone I don't even know, know when my birthday is? Just for added info, whenever he talks to me over private e-mails or me and other members on the public forum, some things he says just seem very off. But it's always as if he has a personal gripe with me for some reason. I wish I could explain it better. He just seems very wishy-washy with his words. Like he will say stuff that comes across as over-the-top, or he would always arrange meet-ups and then cancel at the last minute. I don't think I want to stay in contact with him. He is just too dodgy for his own good. We got talking about video-gaming, and I guess we got chatting from that alone. sounds like he background checked you or google searched you. He may be wanting to meet and checking to see of you are real. some simply try to pinpoint a location so they know you are not a scammer from another country. Or if they say they are frm Texas and the phone is in NJ??? that kind of thing. But by doing so, other information becomes available. I wouldn't mind, if it was for a reason like the ones you stated here. There's still the question of the personal gripe he seems to have towards me, though. Why have one towards someone you've never met?
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^^^AGREE I have used "Been Verified" a couple times Just because i thought someone was suspicious Amazing the things it can tell you about some people...  Hi Sweetest ! Ah, right. Maybe Sheldon Cooper can help. *sigh* |
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It is the easiest thing in the world for someone to look up your stats online, they probably don't think twice about it. Even looking up your usernames can render specifics. It is the nature of online. This may have spooked you into second-guessing. Why not ask how he knew? Yes. I should ask him. What with him not being online since around March of last year, I haven't had much chance to.
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All depends on what site your on. Facebook tells everyone what your Birthday is. Even this site automatically changes your age for you. If they had really noticed what your age was then it changed they would know. Just saying........ But.....it all depends on how much more they seem to know about you. Then be blunt and ask them how they know certain things... Could be and old bf/gf that knew you were on a certain site. You bring up a good point there, about maybe he just noticed my age had changed that day. I didn't think about that. I don't have a Facebook anymore. I may have one again one day, but not yet.
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If he knows your real name he can find out your birthday. If he's dodgy think he might be married. Don't forget I've seen a pic of you and I think a man would be happy to meet you, even if you are British! j/k If he knows my real name you say, ah, so, he must know my full name then. It has to be someone who knows my full name? Got it ;)  . You've seen my pics. You're onto me huh? :P Sorry to hear you been under the weather. How's no pic working for you, are you getting less out-of-the=blue marriage proposals? You're not the only woman on here that deleted their pics, wondering why ya'll did it. |
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All depends on what site your on. Facebook tells everyone what your Birthday is. Even this site automatically changes your age for you. If they had really noticed what your age was then it changed they would know. Just saying........ But.....it all depends on how much more they seem to know about you. Then be blunt and ask them how they know certain things... Could be and old bf/gf that knew you were on a certain site. good points important also I think to remember that there is a PM system on here and peeps could be obtaining information from others on here who've known you longer from here just like how you'd get your best friend to find out where the cute boy in HS that you liked lived? back in the day . I sometime still am so back in the day. T'was a great time. The eighties and the nineties. *double sigh*
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Follow your gut. That's what everyone who walks normally does. Yeah. I know what you meant.  Well, I'm 5 ft 6, so my gut is really long. More like distended. |
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Must take break.
 . Hands hurting. Head hurting.
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I believe this person is playing games. Why would he spend the time to research your birthday and then cancel meeting you. He sounds a little strange and also married or in a relationship. I suggest the delete button!
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I'm not usually suspicious of anything, unless something gives me a good reason to be. Here's why I feel freaked out. I started talking to someone on a chat forum, and I never give private details about my life, until I get to know a person. This particular person wishes me Happy Birthday on my actual birthday. I have never told him when my birthday is. As I haven't got to know him all that well. I'm sure this would freak ANYONE out? Yesterday, I told my mum all about it, to see what she thought of it, she told me to keep her updated about it. Why would someone I don't even know, know when my birthday is? Just for added info, whenever he talks to me over private e-mails or me and other members on the public forum, some things he says just seem very off. But it's always as if he has a personal gripe with me for some reason. I wish I could explain it better. He just seems very wishy-washy with his words. Like he will say stuff that comes across as over-the-top, or he would always arrange meet-ups and then cancel at the last minute. I don't think I want to stay in contact with him. He is just too dodgy for his own good. We got talking about video-gaming, and I guess we got chatting from that alone. He maybe someone you already know. Or He maybe someone who knows someone close to You. Maybe he looked you up on that site. |
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Follow your gut girl.
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I read all this and the same question kept popping up in my head; if he's that weird why are we even having this discussion?
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How long does it take to know your own heart?
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RG, If you feel freaked out,and your gut is shouting''RUN'',then by all means,RUN!! You're so right :). While it's hard to break a connection with someone, it would be best to. Btw, I LOVE the cat in your pic.  Thank you!! I love it too....but i guess it was bounced off?? I logged on,and found someone had replaced my cat with Tweety again!!! 
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Just pick me, i'll take you away from all that, and this could be a little bit biast but I'm a great lover..lol...
I like to say this, "if something isn't right, then its wrong" if it feels wrong, simply, it must be! It seems like this guys got a bit of a velvet tongue, even if he felt the need to investigate your background ? to see if your married or what ever, its still pretty stupid of him to let that slip. Well I hope you didn't tell him and forgot, like your guys were talking about horoscopes and went From there. Is it possible that maybee your the crazy one, ya ! how do we not know that your not the crazy one! ...lol.. My point with him is, guys that are as you say " wishy washy " loose with the lips, generally bull chit their was out as quick as they bull chited, their way in, & also go though a lot of employers as well. I've said it before & i'll say it again & again & again, "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER than words, four time's I have been in love & left them all on this basis, hard thing to do. One can always except a friend for their changes, but a true friend needs to be honest with themselves & others, obviously , my loves it not fit this criteria. It sound like your on the right track now girl !you thinking is spot on, yes, " if it dosent fit, you must acquit" Sure easier before than latter. As I am new to written communication, I am learning quickly that are words can also be are actions! |
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