Topic: New life after being married for 20 yrs
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Wed 03/06/13 04:15 PM
How do you start over after losing your wife to divorce.had the same friends lost them church and everything else that mattered-

4evababy's photo
Wed 03/06/13 04:34 PM
sorry to.hear that

justme659's photo
Wed 03/06/13 04:35 PM
I am sorry this sounds trite, but one day at a time. Remember what your favorite activities are and go out and do them. Say hello with a smile to new folks you encounter. This is the time to find the real single you. Good luck.

I had 26 years go down the tubes and it takes a while.

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Wed 03/06/13 04:46 PM

How do you start over after losing your wife to divorce.had the same friends lost them church and everything else that mattered-


I had 18 years in... if you have nothing of the past then start from today, make new friends... do what you missed doing when you were married... take it slow, one step at a time... relax into your new you... enjoy living without having to measure up to others expectations for awhile... it'll take time, but you'll get used to being single again.. good luck to you in whatever direction you decide to go...

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Wed 03/06/13 05:41 PM
You will make it, Bob, it takes adjustment and time but just take your time and enjoy doing what you want to do. Each day should get easier. Good luck and hang in there.

William8's photo
Wed 03/06/13 06:39 PM
Plenty of divorced women around here Bob.