can men have a deep conversation, with out thinking with the third leg, or it just being all physical.
can guys really put in the time to get to know the girl, not just what she looks like.

If a woman is still legally married to someone, then I don't care what she looks like.

single or married men only look at the physical

if guys would listen to us and take the time to really get to know us as a person. then us girls would give you guys what u want the most and that is sex

men can have a deep conversation (with other men)

men can not think without the third leg (it isn't detachable)

men can be all physical (no joke there)

guys can really put in the time to get to know the girl (that is called a long term relationship to a man)

men don't ever care what his woman looks like (just how the other women look at strip clubs)

i guarantee i guarantee this is not the first thread a women asks a question of a man, but won't accept any answer unless it's from a woman

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well what happened to manners. i think they died in the 1940's. when u have been in a relationship where the guy never listen to what u had to say and always told u were wrong and made u feel dumb. then when he wanted to have sex u were great you start to feel like that is all u are a body with no mind.

no need to build a time machine and visit the 1940's, plenty of gentlemen in the here and now. what you describe is an isolated incident with one man. you may think that every man is the same, but each man thinks for himself. it can be frustrating if you keep the blinders on and expect every man you come in contact with to act like the one you had contact with. try to be open minded and let each man you meet start with a clean slate. i guarantee i guarantee that if you don't hold your past as the benchmark for all men, you will find one that will love you for you

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ese has a good point that men are individuals and not all are going to display the bad habits of your ex partner

but the OP makes a more universal point that men cannot seem to get through their skulls, IN MY expereince. Really. I have only talked to one man who seemed to understand this universal truth about men, and it is: Men (and yes there may be a FEW exceptions) do not seem to understand that women cannot feel sexual (and again, sure, there's a few exceptions - like your local street walker...) anyway, women are not going to feel sexual toward you if there is any contention, if she does not feel appreciated, if you do not spend time with her and want to do so,

AND we can tell when you are faking it. (just to get laid - we know that routine- usually have it down by heart before age 16)

So before you throw out the next "married sex" joke or complain that you're not "getting any" ask yourself when the last time was that you showed your wife appreciation, had a convo that lasted more than 3 minutes that did not end up with her in tears being criticized, over ruled, ignored, or ended cuz your best buds showed up and they're more important...then 6 beers later after they left YOU wanted sex, and she wasn't interested...hmmmm....wonder why????

Men do not undertand this because they do not necessarily need that same emo connection to feel sexual..toward anyone (and sometimes anything)

BUT if you want a happy monogamous partner this has to be accepted and lived up to - even if not completely understood.

This is why it's important to marry your "best friend...." Once the "heat" wears off...you will need to still want her as a friend so that you can HAPPILY and genuinely spend the time necessary to nurture the relationship. And she will need that friendship side of things to remain interested in you sexually. So if she's not your best friend you have the wrong gal...

When I hear a man say he's not getting any I know exactly why and ask him what he has done lately to make her want it? from him, that is... :)

Am with Sweetestgirl on this one!

Women easily get disconnected from their men because man doesnt hive her time, time just for her!
To me,if am to be with you today,spend time together,dont even think of taking even 30 minutes off to be with your mates,because,THEN its not MY day with you!!

Then you girls have to stop thinking about Brad Pitt in return!

Ha ha haaaa
Yessir!!
Move over Pitt!!

Ha ha haaaa
Yessir!!
Move over Pitt!!

Answering your question directly to be frank, more than 90% of us dont. But if u r patient u will find ur 1 of the 10% available.

Answering your question directly to be frank, more than 90% of us dont. But if u r patient u will find ur 1 of the 10% available.