hmm guy allways wonderd why women dont call them after they meet to set up a date

1. you had no rapport

2. she knows you want to have sex

3. she thinks you dont want to have sex

now to end this i take women out to 3 locations instead of the old dinner..this works because on the first date you are still a stranger..this builds rapport and trust

now guide the convo by talking about yourself ask her about her life. but dont ask one by one

make a plan on the dot instead of ending the date..

Hey Player,

Where are the 3 locations?

make a date on the dot instead of ending it..for example you could be talking about you going to the beach and then say join me INSTEAD OF ASKING.

keeping in touch

there are many things to keep in touch with aim cell myspace..
now you want to make it seem like you have a fun life so tell her anything..like text her and say im shopping. these things make her want to join you later on for a date.. NOW neva ask for a date tell her to join or come along

maybe knox maybe other places then old dinner scene i prefer going to breakers and playing pool!

my 3 locations are anywhere fun i would take a woman to a aquarium then we can walk around then go to a tatoo parlor and then a small coffie shop..keep it fun and adventurous

Player. I thought all that would have been done online for a while if one is looking for a life partner? All what? This is what U said: Quote: "now guide the convo by talking about yourself ask her about her life. but dont ask one by one." Unquote.
Shouldn't compatability be decided BEFORE you agree to meet. Why woud some be so ANXIOUS to meet and leave out this important GROUNDWORK?

AVOID saying the word: "Date?" Good idea. Thanks

lol ya know date isnt a bad word but common sence should tell you that you dont date someone if you dont have anything in common!

greving i would have to say i cant answer that i dont look for women online. and to answer your question thats what first dates are for to figure out compatiabity.

thats why i get to know somebody pretty well before i go on a date with them,i dont need another hell date or my time wasted..

i say date because the age group in JSH is very in the 30s i never call my "dates" dates...

woowhoo i feel special..yay for me in 22!

lmao@bee NO COMMENT

If you are close enough distance wise to date more than once, don't worry so much about compatibility..very little anyway. Invite "her" to go do something that you enjoy..if she don't want to do it..a good sign of incompatibility, and I would expect her to say so. When I was a kid...hs and college, I never worried about compatability or anything else. I just asked them out to do whatever I was doing, movies, dinner, keggers, sports...it never mattered. We are too hung up on everything matching to even have fun. I never enjoyed dating someone "too" compatible. Where is the excitement in that? It is more fun to learn whether you can get along by dating than by cold, logical analysis. Too much analysis will keep you from dating anyone because you will find a reason to not go out with anyone. I never even think about the long term on the first few dates, that will come in its due course. There is no emergency to find a long term relationship, unless you have an incurable illness and are soon to die, then, it does not matter anyhow. Just date like you are sixteen again.

o common player u know my comment was funny...

so what do people call dating...'im lonely and i need someone to validate my life in this moment?" totally kidding

In response to bee....in my opinion, a sasted date is one that I did not go out on...occasionally hae had a "hell" date, but, inretrospect, have had two "hell" marriages too and a date is only a one shot thing

i had 2 hell boyfriends..and i dont casually date..i date one person at a time..less drama lol

i call it going out thats it....LMAO i even take women grocery shopping. lol when i spend 80 dollars at a resturant then thats a date..But that has not happen so its just going out

Player, are you at it again? I still don't get why people think listening to an 18 yr old giving advice to adults is so fasinating.