Maybe this is his wake up call, people can change in a matter or seconds
with certain life instances, and some don't but just remember that it
took the two of you, when you are friends with benefits he has to take
the responsibility that you could get prego.... so if anything if he
does deny the child just take his ass to court!

yep!! it takes 2 to tango!!

Im glad it turned out the way it did

good luck.

morena

Yes that it does. I think that this was his wake up call. About damn
time i say. I've been raising kids since I was 19yrs old and here I am
10yrs later still raising kids alone. Granted my kids's dad now is
involved with their lives it still isn't the same. I'm not about ready
to go through raising another one without some help.

that happens when you play hide the hot dog!.. lol

cute 4fun06. Never thought of it as that..LOL

whatzup??

Nothing up here. Just trying to get tired enough to finally fall
asleep..

IVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION,YES HE HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW
WHETHER OR NOT HE HELPS OUT IS HIS CHOICE,
SOME GUYS ARE SCARED OF BABIES
MY YOUNGEST CHILDS FATHER DIDNT COME AROUND TIL SHE WAS BIGGER
NOW HE IS THE BEST FATHER,IF IT FREAKS HIM OUT
DONT BE AFRAID TO DO IT ON YOUR OWN
I HAVE FOR MANY YEARS
AND YOU MUST THINK ABOUT
THIS CHILD WILL MEAN YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH EACHOTHER
FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES

IVE BEEN A SINGLE MOM OF 4 FOR MANY YEARS
WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT
I DIDNT WANT ANY MORE KIDS
I PLANNED TO PUT HER UP FOR ADOPTION
BUT WHEN SHE WAS BORN
I JUST COULDNT GO THROUGH WITH IT
WHEN I LOOKED AT HER LITTLE FACE
THATS ALL IT TOOK
I FINALLY HAD ONE THAT LOOKS JUST LIKE ME
I BROKE THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS HEARTS BY CHANGING MY MIND
BUT SHE IS MINE,AND IT WAS MY CHOICE
AND IT WAS HARD
RIGHT AFTER SHE WAS BORN
I WAS HOSPITALIZED FOR A MONTH
AS SOON AS I GOT HOME
THINGS REALY CHANGED
I HAD A PERVERTED LANDLORD
THAT KICKED ME OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF WINTER
BECAUSE I WOULDNT SLEEP WITH HIM
I SPENT HER FIRST YEAR OF HER LIFE HOMELESS
MOTELS,SHELTERS,FRIENDS HOUSES
BUT WE MADE IT
IF I CAN DO IT YOU CAN TO

Well, glad to hear that it has turned out the way it has. I raised my 2
kids for 15 yrs by myself so yeah it can be done. For were there is a
will there is a way. Good luck & Best Wishes to you

Thank you. Paterafan it is hard to put up a child for adoption. I did
that about 4yrs ago. The good thing was I knew where the child was going
and get to see him often due to the fact they live where my children go
to school and the same day care. At that time of my life I had no
choice. Like u i was living at home with my dad and no job and just
couldn't handle it. I wrote him a letter letting him know why i gave him
up for adoption cuz i loved him that much to let him go. I am raising my
children the best i can and i make enough to keep a roof over our heads
and food on the table. we don't have much but it is what we got.

yeah i agree you should tell him

Well, I already responded to a topic like this a while ago in here and
she asked if anyone thought it was wrong to have f@#k buddies!! Well,
my response was YES WAY it's wrong!! One of the things I said, not only
is it not moral but, what if you get pregnant? Now, I see it happened.
Is having a f@#k buddy really worth all of this headache and hastle? I
mean yeah, you need to tell him definitely!! Maybe you all out there
that have f@#k buddies might learn something because look at angel1977.
Look what happened. She didn't plan this and didn't want this and was
on birth control. It was an unfortunate thing. Sex is supposed to be
for special things between two people....not as a fun, feel good romper
room time. That's my view anyway. If there were no f@#k buddies, I'll
bet there would be no problems. I'm sorry this happened to you
angel1977. But, yes you HAVE to tell him about it!! He has a RIGHT to
know. I had a girlfriend once (my ex now) and she was with a guy who
was pretty bad. Well, she found out she was pregnant with his kids
(twins) after they broke up. She went out and got an abortion and her
reason was, "I didn't want anything or any ties with that guy." And you
know what....she didn't tell him about the babies and THAT WAS SOOOO
WRONG!! Plus, having an abortion JUST so she didn't have to be in that
guys life anymore was SOOOO WRONG TOO!! No, you need to let him KNOW!!
DEFINITELY!!! For sure. You never know, this might bring both of you
closer together :)

You have to tell him, what ever he does after you tell him thats on
his concious, at least you are going to know you didi your part
confessing you are pregnant. Good luck and congratulations.