Insecure people will always find someone else to blame their weight issue on. Why would anyone date an insecure monster? I say, fix your self-esteem, otherwise of course no-one will wanna date you. Nobody likes a whiner. Jmo.

that's kinda hot lol

it has nothing to do with self-esteem. Its a fact personally I dnt think I'm all that big/cubby whatevver u would Cal it I'm just stateing. A fact

lol. heck i like em thick, no question

I'm a big guy. I gotta gut on me. If that stops a woman from dating me then,More power to her. I was looking when I found her. I'll get another one. All this constant "hoop la" about the size of a man or womans body is some of the biggest bull shyt I ever heard.

If your not attracted to this man or woman because of their ways or maybe they just don't suit you. fine, No big deal. But these people that put such a big emphasis on "body" and how it looks, to me people like that are short sighted and narrow minded. They are passing up what could be a great human being just because of body type.

A fact of life that in my 51 yrs of being top side I've learned to be true. I've seen people who were "big" live to be 90 or older and die happy. They lived a full life. I've also seen people with one percent body fat, in their early 30's that run or do some type of exercise daily, Fall to the ground clutching their chest with a massive heart attack.

The moral of the story, Exercise is good for you.But, it will not add one more second to your life. When It comes the time to go,Your outta here. So,Enjoy your life. No matter what size you are. Be happy within yourself no matter your size. When people see that you are happy with you, They will be happy with you to. Being happy in ones self is very attractive. Be it man or woman.

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we can be chubby and flexible dear.. ;)

HEALTHY ALWAYS ....skinny eWWWwWww I don't want to weigh more than my mate!!! when it comes to men hmMmmmmmm...well I want him to make me feel like a women not like I can kick His A** hope that makes sense!

A happy medium between the two.
There's a difference between chubby and gone off the rails fat.
Also being too skinny is unhealthy looking.

Definitely chubby

Chubby feels great to cuddle

I have been up and down all my life and for what to please everyone else but the most important person of all me
Guess what I kinda like me now and better yet so does everyone else
If the real u shines thru it does not really matter what u look like on the outside
I have met people who r skinny with absolutely no heart and soul I Rock my full figure

i like a guy who thnks with his heart an not his brain...

healthy and chubby.....flexible

Hearts don't think though.

lol true that who use's his heart then.

I like Big butts

i like baloons

I tend to go for athletic types. Not necesarrily sports girls but more like gymnasts, fitness models, volleyball players. slender, healthy and muscular but with a nice balance. If I could post a pic of something I will later, but I doubt there are any of that type of girls that frequent their time on here.

so yeah, healthy with well-toned physique.

am skinny so chuby

well said