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Topic: FAVORITES
teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Wed 01/16/13 08:09 AM
I've got a hmmmm....question? Has anyone made you a favorite, but hasn't spoken to you or friend requested you?? OR Have you made someone a favorite but haven't said jack to the person? WHY? DO you want them to contact you first to see if they are interested? And for all those looky lous... who view but don't respond... Sack up people! I want to hear from you too!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/16/13 08:14 AM
People who add me as a favorite never actually contact me. It's weird. My guess is people use it as a way of saying "look at me and contact me!" I just ignore them.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Wed 01/16/13 08:21 AM
People who add me as a favorite never actually contact me. It's weird. My guess is people use it as a way of saying "look at me and contact me!" I just ignore them. Same here! It's creepy, Right?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/16/13 08:21 AM
Yeah, it is weird. It would be nice if there was an option to remove them, but there isn't.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 01/16/13 09:13 AM
I usually let them know I have selected them as a favorite cuz, they are someone I would like to not lose track of.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Wed 01/16/13 09:34 AM
I usually let them know I have selected them as a favorite cuz, they are someone I would like to not lose track of. Ok...Let's explore this? Is there a reason you woulnd't want to say... Hi, pretty lady.. As only you can? Someone who makes me a favorite ...followed up with, Hi Teebee, I like your profile! I'm going to take notice of.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 01/16/13 09:50 AM
I think some are going through profiles adding those as favorites they're going to get back to and message and for whatever reason don't.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15205	Wed 01/16/13 09:55 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 01/16/13 10:05 AM
I have made friends but no favorites.I have my Filters on. If they can not fit through my Filters then they are Not for me and I do not contact them back.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Wed 01/16/13 10:05 AM
I think some are going through profiles adding those as favorites they're going to get back to and message and for whatever reason don't. makes sense.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 01/16/13 01:46 PM
I forgot you could add someone as a favorite. Guess the phrase of if you never use it, you lose it does work.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Wed 01/16/13 01:54 PM
I've got a hmmmm....question? Has anyone made you a favorite, but hasn't spoken to you or friend requested you?? OR Have you made someone a favorite but haven't said jack to the person? WHY? DO you want them to contact you first to see if they are interested? And for all those looky lous... who view but don't respond... Sack up people! I want to hear from you too! Yeah...i just don't get that adding as a favourite thingy. Favourite what ffs?

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 01/16/13 02:40 PM
nO nO I don't nO nO

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 01/16/13 02:44 PM Edited by willing2 on Wed 01/16/13 02:46 PM
Maybe for the guys on hot women they like, they could change it to 'I'd tap dat'. That's how I think, anywho.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Wed 01/16/13 06:08 PM
Yeah, I've been favorited on here by some completely random spammer. I think it could just be like the people on social networking sites that go about collecting complete strangers as "friends" that they never message or reply to. "Hey, look at me; I've got over three hundred friends on Facebook." Whoopy doo.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 01/19/13 11:28 PM
Many times, and they rarely contact me. I haven't favorited anyone here, but have on other sites, because I learned that if I found someone interesting and didn't favorite them, I couldn't find them again!