Do other members have the same issue here? I wrote in my profile the qualities and traits which I seek in a man. I keep getting contacted by men who do not fit my requirements. Why waste my time and yours, men, when you know that I am not interested? Respect member profiles by reading them before contacting someone.

Ahaha I know how you feel ! :D
Keeps happening to me too :)
I think men are just excited and they want to take a chance I guess

I agree and it has been my experience that poor photo representation had mislead many into thinking the photos are what the person actually looks like and when you meet they are sometimes 40 to 80 pounds larger. It is not honest to say a few extra pounds, average, athletic if you weigh over 150 lbs and are less than 5 ft 4. Full body photos that are recent and represenative facilitate accurate evaluation by others. Its dishonest to portray oneself as average unless you mean a size 14 !!

Welcome, OP. Those duds aren't worth damn all. There is better out there ;)

I COULD NOT AGREE MORE!
It makes me feel like a B***H when I don't respond back.

Thanks for your feedback, everyone. I see many good looking men here but, unfortunately, they are too young for me. What do these young men want, a mother figure? I am interested in men my own age, not to mention someone who is on the same wavelength as far as intellect and education. Women are looking for SERIOUS relationships here. The players need not apply.