Topic: Trust
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Thu 08/09/07 07:24 PM
When will the sexes start trusting each other?? Just because on person cheats doesn't mean they all do!!!!

Queene123's photo
Thu 08/09/07 07:33 PM
well yea true, but there is honesty and trust and trust the big word of beliving in them. as i have a hard time in that as i guess it has to do with my ex hubby ( thanks a bunch) and i have been divorced for 18yrs.. i have found trust in others but also have been hurt as well and thats hard to deal with when your emotions go hay wiresad sad now i really could use a drinker

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Thu 08/09/07 07:34 PM
hey.. thats a good q.. only problem with that.. is I'm like that.. I don't want to be. but I am.. Though for some reason I've always had trouble trusting anyone.. but mostly guys I've gone out with.. now that I've realized that it is me.. I'm trying to change.. I'm just not sure how.. and its hard to change when you've been a certain way for so long.. anyways.. Idk.. maybe u can give me some advice. anyways.. hopefully its not to late to reply to this lol.. later.
Melissa

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Thu 08/09/07 07:35 PM
Trust is earned, almost a privliage, one starts out as trusting, but 9/10 that gets broken, and to rebuild trust is almost a lfe long process, unfortunately after trust has been broken, one carries the "I can't trust" issue into thier next relationship, or on friends.

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Thu 08/09/07 08:07 PM
Very well said Dayv...