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Topic: Looking for Fun
goldenhinde Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 631	Sun 12/16/12 01:21 AM
I notice a lot of men are looking for "fun". Mostly Ireland, Portugal, Romania and Greece, because that has been my focus so far, but I am a world traveler, and I wonder what "looking for fun" means. Could it be a kind phrase for sex? I really don't care, just wondering while I'm wondering. Kisses, Golden

harsh2019 Joined Tue 06/05/12 Posts: 314	Sun 12/16/12 01:27 AM
Well i agree with you my lady........it has become a common meaning for that word when the real meaning of the word implies enjoying and spending time with family and friends..........Most men and women both have mistaken different meanings for the word........... Warm Regards Harsh [wish you luck on your journey across the world :)]

goldenhinde Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 631	Sun 12/16/12 01:32 AM
My Dearest Harsh, Thank you for your input. I appreciate your comments. I am new to this site. There is some beating around the bush when there should be some beating and some bush. Ah yes, my travels. I will have a great journey. Kisses Golden

harsh2019 Joined Tue 06/05/12 Posts: 314	Sun 12/16/12 01:40 AM
My Lady I am honoured to have been able to give my views in respect of that topic.......Thank you so much for the reply too and i wish you lots of happiness and enjoyment in your travels and i do hope to hear your journals and views on the places you visit... Warm Regards Harsh :)

Daciana1 Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 1	Sun 12/16/12 06:00 AM
Hello and nice to see you, Goldie. For me looking for fun is similar to fooling around.

dk62 Joined Sun 10/30/11 Posts: 40	Sun 12/16/12 06:48 AM
would that "definition of fun" be just about the same as the current one for "date"? Used to be a date was going out on a wholesome activity, maybe a picnic, dinner, movie, or something that really was fun. Seems like anymore, "date" has come to imply sexual relations. How about a "date" that does not mean jumping in the sack?

jayzpc Joined Mon 11/19/12 Posts: 33	Sun 12/16/12 06:54 AM
There are 2 views on this. The person writting is challenged when it comes to imagination when writting which they are unable to make a full sentence. Second of all it could be right to the point "looking for fun"... aka don't get in the car with them lol.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Sun 12/16/12 07:06 AM
Fun is pretty relative. Sex is fun. Climbing trees is fun. Poetry is fun. If I found a girl that do all three at the same time then I might reconsider marriage. But yeah, they probably mean sex. Also, enjoy Romania. I'm jealous.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 12/16/12 11:32 AM
Fun is pretty relative. Sex is fun. Climbing trees is fun. Poetry is fun. If I found a girl that do all three at the same time then I might reconsider marriage. But yeah, they probably mean sex. Also, enjoy Romania. I'm jealous. so you are planning to have sex in a tree?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 12/16/12 11:34 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 12/16/12 11:34 AM
Yep it means sex. There are some who say it doesnt, and knowing that it will be perceived as sex, do not wish to remove it to avoid being misunderstood. Wink wink. I agree - especially if it is in the first 1 or 2 messages and or part of a profile that has no pic or a bare chested bathroom camera phone photo - double the probability if he is wearing low waisted gym shorts and a ball cap who in h-e-double L wears a ball cap in the bathroom for chrissakes???

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sun 12/16/12 12:29 PM
In my case, fun means lots of different things but If I am with a woman who clicks, I hope that sooner or later, sex will be there too. I guess to some it just means sex. Assume that it means sex and don't worry about it, unless you don't want sex ... then discuss it first. Good luck.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 12/16/12 05:57 PM
Yep, looking for fun says looking for sex.

jaded72 Joined Tue 12/06/11 Posts: 1456	Sun 12/16/12 07:33 PM
Well, chit! That explains why certain people message me... better change my profile comments. LOL.

goldenhinde Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 631	Sun 12/16/12 10:32 PM
Dang, So is it possible to be no fun in the sack?

pkdsuji Joined Sat 08/22/09 Posts: 1	Sun 12/16/12 10:45 PM
iam interested in fun only

Mohiter Joined Sun 12/16/12 Posts: 23	Sun 12/16/12 10:48 PM
BAffles me

2Keith Joined Thu 04/14/11 Posts: 155	Wed 12/19/12 10:15 AM
Dang, So is it possible to be no fun in the sack? Depends on how long you've been married.

goldenhinde Joined Wed 12/12/12 Posts: 631	Wed 12/19/12 01:50 PM
Keith, Got any better pictures?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14937	Wed 12/19/12 04:24 PM
I notice a lot of men are looking for "fun". Mostly Ireland, Portugal, Romania and Greece, because that has been my focus so far, but I am a world traveler, and I wonder what "looking for fun" means. Could it be a kind phrase for sex? I really don't care, just wondering while I'm wondering. Kisses, Golden Yes I bypass Men that have that on their profile.

gentleman771 Joined Tue 12/18/12 Posts: 15	Thu 12/20/12 01:33 AM Edited by gentleman771 on Thu 12/20/12 01:36 AM
contemporary meaning which most of the humans are using now a days. fun means in public: hanging out and playing in private(in lonely place): having sex