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Topic: what do you do,
jacktrades's photo
Tue 12/11/12 02:01 PM

Figure out and fix what's causing the problem.

I agree totally with this. If you really love her work it out. All couples have problems. This could even pull you closer togather than you are now.

Christinacospgs's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:10 PM


Figure out and fix what's causing the problem.

I agree totally with this. If you really love her work it out. All couples have problems. This could even pull you closer togather than you are now.


Yes agree. The sexual arena mostly begins in the mind, for both sexes, at least that's what I've been told.

no photo
Tue 12/11/12 08:08 PM




Humm many times that the man looses his sexual desire it is not due to the woman.....

Or maybe the couple having the issues needs to learn to communicate.whoa


Yeah, that's why I said to figure out the issue and fix it. The OP said they still love the person, so it sounds like there are other issues going on.


the woman is not always interested in fixing it or cooperating in that....I supposed the same can be said for men at times


I realize that. However, I can only speak for myself. I can't say what others would do.


yes I understand. I am a little sensitive to the idea that women are responsible for holding a relationship together (like it's our fault if it tanks), and the idea that people are somehow responsible to try to make a relationship work that is just not working....like a 1950s marriage. I did not think you were suggesting those things and realize you were just stating your opinion.

that's just what the idea of "fixing things" brought to mind for me. I was also just putting up some ideas also....

no photo
Tue 12/11/12 08:10 PM


never take advice from charlie sheen.

(quoting him may be even worse)


Never doubt The Warlock.


he just donated like $75,000.00 to some sick kid somwhereflowerforyou good man........good man is perhaps less apt judge of female gender????laugh

no photo
Wed 12/12/12 09:45 AM


Figure out and fix what's causing the problem.



my thought too,,

I hate this cultural belief that you either 'are' or 'arent' attracted to someone

attraction can develop over time and it can be lost and developed again,, its not an absolute,,,


attraction is 99 percent in the brain and 1 percent in the genitals,,,


Damn!

TBRich's photo
Thu 12/13/12 06:34 PM
You can try a variation of masturbatory conditioning-masturbate to something that turns you on, then as you start to organism, you start thinking about your partner until you finish. This usually works

luvbella's photo
Fri 12/14/12 01:38 AM

Figure out and fix what's causing the problem.




Exactly. If u love her u should figure out problem.

no photo
Fri 12/14/12 04:19 AM
Talk to her

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