I hear people complain not wanting to get involved in distance relationships or to have anything doing with a Black African who'd never travelled overseas.

I will give a warning to anyone- man or woman, about THE DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.
It is not worth the hassle. Unless you have already been together for 5 or more years, and know you can trust each other, do not bother.
I was with a girl for a few weeks, and she landed a job a fair way away. Everything was good for the first 3 weeks. then things started. She would never answer her phone when I rang, it would take a few days for her to answer emails and the texting stopped completely. she then told me to wait for her to text before ringing her, which was sometimes not for weeks. I decided to go visit her,. She answered the door half naked and out of breath. Before I even got to say hello, a guy also appeared behind her, in my damn shorts.
Apparantly we were still together though, cos 2 weeks later when I posted on bebo, i was with a girl that wasnt her, she rang me and cussed my head off. Spurting out that she is angry that I'M cheating on HER.
But in the end, she got hers. She stayed with that guy for 3 more years, with 3 kids, and he left her for a younger woman. KARMA HURTS HUH!