Warnings :

In the case of trying to get a date, if the person who rejected you starts making "advances" on you after he or she has rejected you, but he or she still does not want to see eye to eye with you by being partners or getting more deeply involved, you have to ask yourself if you enjoy simply the flirting pleasures. Many people will not get any pleasure out of it because they know it will not lead anywhere. If you find yourself to be one of these people, then express your disinterest to the person. If things get out of hand and he or she refuses to become intimate with you, but keeps on flirting with you, and you still find no pleasure in the flirting, you may want to break off contact with that person because you find no pleasure in being with him or her. This does not mean you wish bad for the person; it's about self-protection and keeping things real.
People won't always get back to you when you ask for feedback on rejection. That's life––sometimes they're too busy, other times they're at a loss for words as to how to explain something in a way that won't sound too critical or personal. And sometimes, they truly can't be bothered. Again, don't take it personally––see if you can find someone else you trust and who does have time to go over what happened with you, to try and see how to make future improvements.
If you keep taking rejection extremely personally, consider speaking to a counselor or therapist––if you are suffering from depression, anxiety or other mental health issues, you might not have the resilience needed to cope with life's ongoing pressures and need added support. It's nothing to be ashamed or afraid of––every person needs a compassionate guide in life now and then.

Rejection?......

I got no idea what you are talking about.......

If you want something.....go earn it.

Rejection is for those who depend on some one else's approval.

They should damned well be ashamed.

I am the compassionate guide that says "Stand up like a grown adult "

....it ain't a bad thing to not be a victim.

In the situation where you stand while rejection you will always be ashamed of yourself because the time period of your "this" suffering is quit tough and on that "this" moment you can't be matured or an adult and think "this is life" and this **** thing happens rather than you always need a lovable person with you to understand you and who you can cry with now this must be your real life to understand the situation you a suffering with.....

have a nice and safe day :)

All I have to say is that relationships take two not just one and either your all in or your all out sometimes it has to be like that. If you want something take a leap of faith I have been through hell I know that not all guys are jerks out there so I say if you want to meet me then do it if not your loss and one day I will find mr. prince charming for now I know I am okay on my own and have been for ever because the guys I decided to be with never were home to help me out so really I like being single it is easier lonely but at least it's less drama! Everybody have a good day and lets just live one day at a time life is to short to dwell on rejection move forward and be happy that your still alive!

I know..

I continually have to tell all the ladies, " Hey! No means No ! "

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" I am not a piece of MEAT ! I have a mind too ! "

Fantastic! And spot on. That's exactly how I handle my affairs

I don't get the part about not handling rejection like an adult. I understand rejection hurts, but I've always been able to move on from it. No point in reeling for months or years. I can only listen to heartbroken friends/family member so much, until they nearly end up spoiling my day with their misery. There's only so much I can do. I'm not a therapist, and wouldn't fancy being one, after hearing all those miserable stories. lol. Nobody party poops on MY life. Tee hee ;)