Please let me know if I have a good profile or not....please suggest any thing that will improve it.

Thanks!

Yeah, it's fine and says quite a lot about you. I'm not sure if it's necessary to put that bit in at the end about how you don't want anyone abusive or controlling though.

acually it is a good idea for her to say that
for i have been in abusive relationship in the past
and im sure she wouldnt want to go through that

so she was right to state her feelings


for i will not put up with a guy that would try and control me
thats bull i wont put up with that crap


but the man wont admit hes that type untill after you get to know him

for the guy i met yrs ago (14yrs ago)
showed his true colors a few days after we met
he was arrested for asult and battery
and had the nerve to try and call me collect
the nite he was arrested

Looks good to me. I think it could be improved if you simply delete:


I remember once having a girlfriend that I loved very much and she told me "you know I don't care about looks" I guess she felt good about herself, but it made me feel like I really wasn't good enough for her.

If you lived nearby by I might try to make friends with you, but I'd worry that I'm not your type. Your friendly tone is seductive and a big plus in my opinion.

You mean he asaulted a woman?

yes... the old bf abused me

had only known him a short time
and he wigged out on me and threaten to give me a black eye
that didnt happen
but he did hit me in the mouth

the neighbor was the one that called the police
and he was arrested

i had a restraining order on him
and the police was supose to notify me when he was
released but they didnt
he paged me when he got out and when
i called the police they didnt do anything

never heard from him again...
but learned alot about him
through a ex gf that i was able to track down

Looks good from here! If I'm ever up there or you here we'll wet line. :-)

Yeah, I don't think anyone wants to be in an abusive relationship. That's why I'm not sure it's necessary to put that on a profile.

Just my opinion but I don't think it's a great idea to put anything about past relationships on a profile and if I read that sort of thing on a profile I would think that this woman has problems trusting men. Then I would be thinking that it's going to be really hard work trying to get a date with her and build a relationship.

Avoid putting anything negative in your profile. As negativity can definitely be a red flag to people reading it. They'd see it as a warning sign. I know the abuse you suffered was probably not your fault. It's just that it can put others off, if they feel you have emotional baggage.

Thanks for your response....looks are not very important to me but good personal hygiene is....I don't understand nasty people...folks that don't take a bath, brush their teeth or trim their hair....I'm not trying to be mean....I'm just not into people like that....

Thank you...I don't give a crap what people think about my comment about not putting up with an abusive man....I never will and I was being real....