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Topic: What do women honestly want in a first date?
IrishRed1968 Joined Wed 11/21/12 Posts: 33	Mon 11/26/12 07:25 PM
Leigh.... LMAO yeah I kinda wondered that but he didnt have the @ss to back it up!!!!!!! gigglin

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Mon 11/26/12 07:35 PM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Tue 11/27/12 01:15 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 11/27/12 01:17 PM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date? When a man is a real gentleman, he doesn't mind a expensive date with a real lady.

reed1700 Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 1	Tue 11/27/12 01:37 PM
or just ****

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 11/27/12 06:15 PM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date? When a man is a real gentleman, he doesn't mind a expensive date with a real lady. What does the cost of a date have to do with whether someone's a real gentleman or lady?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Wed 11/28/12 11:37 AM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date? When a man is a real gentleman, he doesn't mind a expensive date with a real lady. What does the cost of a date have to do with whether someone's a real gentleman or lady? If a man is Cheap then he not much of a gentleman when he takes a lady out. And a lady is a woman who does not have to go out with just any man.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 11/28/12 12:35 PM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date? When a man is a real gentleman, he doesn't mind a expensive date with a real lady. What does the cost of a date have to do with whether someone's a real gentleman or lady? If a man is Cheap then he not much of a gentleman when he takes a lady out. And a lady is a woman who does not have to go out with just any man. A woman who expects a man to spend a lot of money on her, especially in the beginning before they barely know each other, is not necessarily a lady.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Wed 11/28/12 12:52 PM
My dates are not cheap and I am not looking for a Coffee break Man, if he wants that, He better keep looking elsewhere. So, you expect your first date with a person to be an expensive date? When a man is a real gentleman, he doesn't mind a expensive date with a real lady. What does the cost of a date have to do with whether someone's a real gentleman or lady? If a man is Cheap then he not much of a gentleman when he takes a lady out. And a lady is a woman who does not have to go out with just any man. A woman who expects a man to spend a lot of money on her, especially in the beginning before they barely know each other, is not necessarily a lady. All depends on the woman and man involved. I know the men I have a first date with, before any first date. And, I am a Lady.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 11/28/12 12:56 PM
Well, good for you. I happen to have been on cheap dates with men I absolutely considered gentlemen. We just have different preferences. If a guy tried to spend a lot of money on a first date, it would make me think he's trying too hard.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Wed 11/28/12 01:07 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 11/28/12 01:08 PM
Well, good for you. I happen to have been on cheap dates with men I absolutely considered gentlemen. We just have different preferences. If a guy tried to spend a lot of money on a first date, it would make me think he's trying too hard. Yes, we all have Opinions on dating and relationships on here. I usually spend time in communicating a long time with a man before any first date. I have turn down dates, because of guys I knew I wouldn't want to be with. I am sure many ladies out there have done the same thing at times. The harder a man tries the more I respect that guy to be serious. So we can agree to disagree.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 11/28/12 01:17 PM
Well, good for you. I happen to have been on cheap dates with men I absolutely considered gentlemen. We just have different preferences. If a guy tried to spend a lot of money on a first date, it would make me think he's trying too hard. Yes, we all have Opinions on dating and relationships on here. I usually spend time in communicating a long time with a man before any first date. I have turn down dates, because of guys I knew I wouldn't want to be with. I am sure many ladies out there have done the same thing at times. The harder a man tries the more I respect that guy to be serious. So we can agree to disagree. There's absolutely nothing wrong with turning down a date with a man you're not interested in. If I meet someone online that I'd like to go on a date with, I'd definitely chat a bit first to see if I actually wanted to go out. Though, if I met someone in person, it would be a bit different.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 11/28/12 01:26 PM
I usually pick a restaurant in a place I like to wander around in because I do get stood up a lot, usually they later tell me I intimidated them. Imagine me intimidating and I didn't even go into my Sgt. Hartman or Hannibal Lector voice! One woman said she was worried she would not be able to fight me off if I tried to rape her. I found that so insulting that I never returned any of her phone calls afterwards.