Topic: new to this need advice
GardenGirl527's photo
Wed 11/21/12 05:36 AM
Hi just went on my first meeting. I haven't heard much feedback. I guess I would like to know that maybe it was nice and let's meet again or not interested. Is there like a time frame you should wait. Idont want to seem eager just want to know where I stand. My profile is honest Pictures are me and current. Im up front with age and physical appearance.
What am. I missing.

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 11/21/12 06:08 AM
I heard somewhere that the time to try to arange a second date is when you're on the first date.

You just aren't going to get "feedback" from everyone. If they decided that they aren't interested they aren't really going to want to have a debate about it.

I don't know and I am in no way a dating expert but I would say that if the person you went out with doesn't call and if they aren't talking to you even on here they probably aren't that keen.

Also, it's unclear to me anyway what you're looking for. Your profile says something about how you're looking for "fun" and I'm not sure that's the way to go if you're looking to meet "genuine" people.

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Wed 11/21/12 06:35 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ok guess I was reading quick..Thought this screen name said Twat...lolol..laugh




Welcome to Mingle2 ((garden))flowerforyou

metalwing's photo
Wed 11/21/12 06:42 AM
What you are missing is that everyone is different ... there is no set protocol for what your date will do. Go with your gut if you think he had a good time, expect a call. If you don't know if he liked you, maybe he didn't. If it happens, ... fine, but don't worry about it.

babydollmandy's photo
Wed 11/21/12 07:50 AM

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ok guess I was reading quick..Thought this screen name said Twat...lolol..laugh




Welcome to Mingle2 ((garden))flowerforyou
omg thats what i thought to lol

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Wed 11/21/12 08:42 AM
laugh laugh laugh

flowerforyou

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 11/21/12 08:45 AM
Yeah, I know and I probably shouldn't have used this name on a dating site but at least it gets me noticed.

Thanks for the welcome. I honestly don't believe that I'm going to get any dates from going on the forums but I'm happy enough to chat with people from different countries on the internet.

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Wed 11/21/12 08:48 AM

Yeah, I know and I probably shouldn't have used this name on a dating site but at least it gets me noticed.

Thanks for the welcome. I honestly don't believe that I'm going to get any dates from going on the forums but I'm happy enough to chat with people from different countries on the internet.



Hey its a cool screen name...at least from my point of view...:)Old fuddy duddies might not think so..lolol..if they think it says Twat...ha ha..i love it..got you noticed..Welcome to Mingle2.flowers

jacktrades's photo
Wed 11/21/12 09:17 AM
I would'nt do much soul searching over it. Accept it for what it was a nice evening with a nice person. Do not be afraid to broaden your horizions and except other offers for dates. Some people move slower than others and are more cautious.
Side note Nice shoes!

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 11/21/12 02:03 PM

Hi just went on my first meeting. I haven't heard much feedback. I guess I would like to know that maybe it was nice and let's meet again or not interested. Is there like a time frame you should wait. Idont want to seem eager just want to know where I stand. My profile is honest Pictures are me and current. Im up front with age and physical appearance.
What am. I missing.
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This almost sounds like you went on a job interview. How was the date for you? Did you enjoy yourself? Do you want to see this person again?

metalwing's photo
Wed 11/21/12 03:08 PM
Do you need for us to whip his azz?spock

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/21/12 05:18 PM
Might have something to do with the fact that you are seperated and not single and he is just not into the drama that can cause. Most truely single people don't want to be the rebound relationship so he is probably just backing off for the time being and see if you are going to go through with becoming single.