Where are all of the serious good guys?? Am I asking too much? Should I resort to lies and deceit to get a guy???
HELP!

The serious good guys are probably avoiding women who are still married.

welcome



tammy

Yes, did you expect to meet soul mate on day one? Cast your net wider, make friends and friends grow into other things.

try posting a little bit more about yourself and more about what type of guy you are looking for.

Good luck to you

Kim

Right on the money Dodo!!

What are you going to lie about? You are gorgeous, young, healthy. Smart. What more could you possibly add that is a non-truth (or true) and makes guys feel more attracted to you?

I don't think you need to lie, because simply there is nothing about yourself that woudl keep the "good guys" away.(*)

What you must do is put yourself out where you are visible, and seem available. Granted, there are no places like that left in today's world, like the old single's dances used to be or group discussions. There are only two places left, indeed, where anyone has more than a snowball's chance of meeting people: in the room where you are kept for potential selection to jury duty, my uncles girlfriend got five marriage offers in three weeks. Plus the bank kept paying her salary. The other place is church, where some people would never want to be caught dead, yours truly is one. And there is a third place, which nobody admits to using, because it has some stigma attached: large family reunions. There is somebody for everybody, a selection that would satisfy any and all different tastes. And testes.

(*) Some people a married woman is not what good guys want. Well, depending on the level of commitment wished for, you'd be surprized about what "good guys" are capable of doing.

Yes you are asking for too much.
Men don't like to give if you ask.
Lies and deceit seem to work.
Honesty and patience does nothing these days.
Be yourself. Live your life.
Prince charming does not exist.
Oh by the way, good luck

Do not dwell on the negative your a very beautiful woman, Never lie stay true to yourself and eventually you will be rewarded.Good luck in your search.

Thanks Everyone!
You've all been very helpful

I've always known I was this way, but I did not know other men were this way too.

Where did you learn this?

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