Ive noticed these men message me all the time saying "hey your cute, can i get your number" or something like that. but they are saying that online but if i was in a mall or some public place, i bet they wouldnt say that. its been on my mind lately what do yu ladies think about it

that question has been haunting me lately too

Online guys tend to be more forward because the rejection isn't so hurtful as in person.

In person guys have said some crazy stuff to me. The men I meet are so persistent..they won't take "no"

omg. one time i was like "soryy im not interested" when this man mesaged me & said "hey wats going on, your hot, im inteerested" then he was all "i wasnt in yu either" thin he tryna cuzz someone out
lol

yeah felisha there are online creepy dudes

One guy cursed me out and insulted me in every way you can think of because I wouldn't call him. I tried to tell him I take precaution online and he straight slammed me in every hurtful way

Does anyone get a bunch of flirty men old enough to be your dad, uncle or grandpa? why is that? what's up with that

wow

if i was you. ill be like "fool you dont know mee, im joccinq on your bizzotch ass"
lol

(takes off my hoop earrin`s & heels)

i know theyre like "wats up sexy"
lol

You are cute, but I won't ask you for your number. There is mile and age difference.

It is not always easy being a guy. We approach, while you choose. Rejection is an issue with us much more than you. I have struck out many more times than I hit a home run (I mean that in finding someone I truly care about and whatnot).

Often times it is not about rejection, but girls mis-intepretation of our intent. It is baffling sometimes how a female can misconstrue my intent. Sometimes a simple hello is a "hello" and I get the evil eye or cold shoulder.

It is a two way street.

Hey, wats going on, felisha? You're hot.



Sorry, but I'm not interested in you. I don't sail that way.





Yea, the whole online thing is like a really weird virtual bar.

Oops. Sorry this was a female only chat. Sorry to chime my male opinion

im a yunq dude . i do stupidd thinqs. if i was at the movies or somethinq && saw a chick i like, i qo for herr.

hahha

Ilikeflipflops it's all about your intentions. In person, guys come up to me in a freaky flirty way..that's an automatic "no."

Online if there is no mutual attraction..then why bother?

Felisha you get me

lol

if a qirl be like "i dont want yu " or somethinq like that when i try to holla, i like that cuz i love it when qirls play hard to qet, they make yu work more. lol. anyway i can tell if she wants me if she has an attitudee when speakinq to me =)

wow Rocky

yess i se your picturee of yu pimping wit all those girls

BoredChick,

You are young and beautiful. When I was your age, it was difficult to approach girls like you in public. It took a lot of nerve and was awkward.

I have grown back into maturity to the stage if I like you I just pull your pig tails like I did back in the day of kindergarten. I’ll also compliment you. But it is still difficult to approach girls. We chase, while you choose. It is not always easy.

Of course young beautiful girls need to watch their guard. Beauty is a two way street, it is sometimes a hindrance to personality and individual growth. Some of the craziest girls are the ones who flaunt it. I steer clear of them.

Again, it is a two way street. It is about how the girl carries herself in public that replicates her responses.

well im not a girl but im goin to comment on it.
first to me it doesnt matter weather we are in the mall, or online, or at a restaurant ill ask.if i like some ill let them no and if they say "NO" it dont matter too me.cause i no that deep down inside of me im a great person and maybe they are losin a great chance of having a good relatinoship.and ill take it in my mind for a later experience.