i swear, is it just me?-- but people now a days seem more so than ever to not only be shallow, but wishy washy, mind players, and just not as respectful in gerneral. just sayin.. what happened to the old days...!?!

My generation was taught that everyone was special, beautiful and entitled to be happy. I think some people have no idea what being humble is.

Most of these shallow people are boring, superficial, and empty people. Luckily you have a choice of what friends you have and what girls you date.

@ andrew, good points there, i only dated once in my life and it only lasted for almost 4 months and that was almost 8 years ago. maybe i am too good for my own cause LOL! i guess rome wasn't built in a day afterall..

Well what is shallow to you may not be to others remember that. That is just personal preference. It isn't easy finding what you are looking for, you just have to keep on searching. Good luck to you.

What a vague rant that you have made. What exactly are you talking about?

@ pixie, i given up the search a long long time ago, now i am waiting for it to just fall in my lap, that is if god allows it to. i dont believe in luch either but thanks for your input.

"luck"

Dude, I didn't meet my late wife until I was age 34. It is too soon for you to give up.

this one member on here that emailed me and hit a wrong cord. it does not matter cause there millions of other cuty girls like her that have shot me down so wateva to that! life keeps on ticking on.

There are definitely people out there who are not shallow. But, everyone has different preferences. We don't all fit everyone's preferences.

i just hate cutsy tootsie " i am better than you" mentality, snobby, uptown stuck up girls that act smart. i am not like every other guy, and too often than not i notice girls that falsly accuse or just assume a guy is like every other guy when really it is not so.. there are too many hot chicks out there that blow off guys that in reality could really prove worthwile for them regardless of how far she lives. just sayin..

i get what u r saying, the world we live in is more than ever a huge salad bowl mixed with so many different ingrediants it aint even funny! it takes all kinds i guess..

Oh, now I get it. You are whining because some attractive-looking women aren't interested in going out with you.

So you didn't fit into someone's preferences. There are plenty of other women out there who may be better for you.

On here, lots of men send the same kinds of emails over and over. Then they all say they're different than every other guy, even though they're writing the same things and asking the same questions. Put a little effort in to not sound the same as everyone else when you contact someone here. It might work well.

... you also don't want to appear shallow by wanting or waiting for something specific when there are a lot of ladies out there that may fit your bill.... in more ways that you could ever imagine... but if you remained stuck wanting and waiting for something you thought was 'right' - you would never know.

not quite, i am just sick of head games!

Wishy-washy shallow is good. I am only 5'4", so shallow prevents me from being drowned in the eyes or soul of the person, (woman, to be sure), and wishy-washy ensures she's clean and not smelly.

What happened to the old days? They came to pass, and then they passed. Nothing extraordinary about the old days. The old days of today were the present of the old days, and they, in turn had their own old days.

The world keeps turning, and the more things change, the more they remain the same. Even the song remains the same.

God will eventually remainder the entire world, or sell it wholesale to the highest bidder.

I take it you made a date when you were twenty-four, and you only met her ten years later, because she was that late for the rendez-vous.

That IS late, old boy. I hope she was worth the wait.

I will say it....

Most people are shallow.....

Next question.

OP, this is classic. A classy case of classic class.

1. You met a young, beautiful woman on the site.
2. You did not look at her personality.
3. Then her personality came out, inasmuch as she did not give you a chance. (Is that a personality trait?)
4. At any rate you found her personality ugly, and her looks great.

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If you can tell me that your original complaint was not wishy-washy, and that your complaint about the girl, after what you told us, was not a sign of a man who is shallow, then please poke me in the eyes beforehand.

In other words, you are complaining, about a personality or type of person, whose traits describe you to a tee.

I have no problems with that, but you sometimes have to look in the mirror to get your feet planted firmly on the ground of reality and clarity of vision, as well as to recalibrate your compass for proper judgment.

That's just my opinion, I don't speak for others or for you.