what are your thoughts on the subject

well that all depends on each other

for me i wouldnt consider someone that was in there 20s
for i would feel like there mom..

come on i have 2kids and 4grandkids..

im not about to date a guy that can fit my own kids ages


and i deffently wouldnt date a man that could be my own dads age..
now that i would say is SICK!!!!!


some guys well dont look at the age. even if there a minor
so i guess they dont mind jail time


my daughter had her oldest when she was 14(2months before she was 15)
the bf she was with is 3/2yrs older and in oregon its declared sagitary rape..
they knew where he lived and where he workd
they didnt arrest him untill 1yr after my grandson was born
he was in jail for a yr
and shortly after he got out
they wernt allowed to see each other but they did.
my daughter got pg with her 2nd
she had her daughter the day before she graduated
she graduate 1yr early at the top of her class
they were together on and off for 10yrs
they got married 7yrs ago
one month after they got married she found out she was pg with her 3rd child.. she finally saw the lite of who he was
we couldnt tell her anything.. she learned the hard way.
they split up before there 1st annerversay. so my 2older grandkids know there dad but my youngest granddaughter hasent seen him sense she was 1yrs old
i told her i felt he was going to brake his probation before he got off, which he had 7days left.. i was right.
he and his brother got in trouble and they were sentence to 3yrs each
his brother got out. but my daughter ex hubby got in trouble while he had been locked up so he has a few more yrs to go

the 4th child is almost 1yrs old.
hes her bf(ex bf) i dont even know if there still together
my daughter is 29yrs old and she can act older

so she has a 14yr old son
12yr old daughter
7yr old daughter
and the baby hes almost 1yrs


yes im proud of my kids
and grandkids

we all make mistakes
which is a learning lesson one must learn by

Yes i think Queene123 is right, it depends on eacht other, well i'm a simple one and age isn't problm for me but not too much older,i'm 22 years old now and i think i can live with a grl between 18-35, but if she's older so much then she well be my moms age, and i cann't see her like that,

happens often enough - just can't be helped....

Historically, some cultures do a lot of it. Older men represent money and stability.

yea which is sick
you ask me

years ago on this one talk show
the girl was from china if i recall right
and she was 14 when she married the guy
and he was 60 or so older

he was paying her parents once a month
to keep her

or try that one freaken actor
that hit the news resently
50yrs old and he married this so call model
thats 16yrs old and she looks freaken 30

come on.. her parents didnt care

well if that was me or anyone else
they would be hitting the ceiling

my sister was dating this guy when she was 14 and he was 23
my dad came out and said are you mentslly insane

he actually came out to be a great guy
he made her go to school and if it wasent for him
she wouldnt had graduated
they were together for 4yrs
and were still good friends with him

thats been over 30yrs ago

How young and how old are you talking about?

Both my husbands were older than I, 7 and 10 yrs.. First marriage was 17 yrs (divorced) and second was 26 yrs(he passed away)..Now looking for someone my age or a little younger to keep up with me..lol

Its an individual decision,cos i would prefer dating a woman 10 or 20 years older..experienced and loving.the older,the better.

You need to be clear about ages as people are responding to two scenarios (and some seem to be getting quite upset which is understandable if they are responding with the first scenario in mind). First is the old pervy sleezy pedo taking advantage of some young teen. Second scenario is two consenting adults who happen to be more then 5 or 10 or more years apart.

Of course my response is for the second scenario because the first doesn't even need or warrant a response. So two consenting adults who happen to be more then 5 or 10 or more years apart? Well really, who gives a flying pigsarse? its their business for whatever reason or circumstance...as long as no one gets hurt or manipulated then let it go, if they find out it was a mistake then so be it - best to learn then never know it was the wrong path huh?.

There are worse things then age gaps...for example what if the guy or girl was racist but colourblind? hmmmmm, aye thats more of a delimma!

Have you noticed how this question is always asked by men and hardly by any women? Maybe women just don't give a rats *** about it, half as much as the men do. Seriously.

I only date old men and little boys.

so you mean by little boys...under the age of 18?



i guess you wouldnt mind jail time

haha well said!

I think she meant it in a joking way, not a serious way.

Agreed. But for the record they are not mutually exclusive!!

i have a friend that i have known sense grade school
she got married a little over 2yrs ago

she is 48 and her hubby just turned 30
she has 2 kids and grandchild

before she married him, i said dont u feel like
u could be his mom.. she didnt say much

but i guess there having some issue in there marriage
and when i saw her last she was ready to kick him out

That's what you get these days when they watch way too much porn!