As a single parent wheather they are little or grown and you are trying to do the GrandPa Gig it takes planning and committment.

Some guys have it some don't.

It is a matter of how how they value me and my time.

I have no problems dating guys with big families, prefer it, but I have to have the feeling that when I EARN it I will have EQUAL family standing.

To think on a casual date that a parent can't have something might come up that takes priority is just lunacy. But yea I expect Dad to have back up plans for minor stuff so he can have a couple hours for a date.

I am not going to make even a Parent a Priority if I am always an Option.

Yes i would date a man with kids because i have kids of my own and if i didnt have kids ill still date a man with kids...