I agree sweetest. :)

slowhand she doesn't look like she's taking things slowly per my advice.....

*hugs totage*

I like your insights too

sad but true.

I think a lot of people if they would just slow down and take a little more time about making the other more vunerable in a relationship by living together, or combining finances, or having a kid together (which is very stressful for the best of circumstances) would prevent a lot of problems. Makes building trust and bonding much easier.

If a person picks you from a position of strength rather than just getting out of a bad, or boreing, or even stifleing situation (living with a rotten roommate or the parents) everything just starts on a better note.

I think your right. My ex and I meet an in a matter of weeks I knew I loved her... Couple months into the relationship I wanted to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her... I did everything to show her that I wasn't going to be like one of the guys in her past that did her wrong and left her with nothing... Nine months into the engagement I had to move out the just weeks later she broke it off... Sad thing is my kids and hers had grown into a right family... I still cant understand why she did this... She said it was because of things that happen in a past marriage and she was questioning things now ... I feel it was something else and she was using that as an excuse... I have talked to my family (VA) counselor who said she has classic traits of a personality disorder.
He advised the more I did for her the more I pushed her away... Due to she didnt know how to handle my kind of love and that she is afraid of it... Just a thought a afraid of true love?