Why can't guys just tell you one way or another if they are interested?

I have been sorta seeing this guy for about a week now. We really hit is off last Saturday when we went to see fire works with my other friend. He have came over on Monday and we watched movies and had a great time just him and I. We even went to the movies on Wednesday and seemed to have an OK time, he seemed a little distant then, but I figured he was just really tired cause he just got off work. It was hot and he was moving things all day, so it made sense for him to be tired. But here is the thing. I have not spoken to him since Wednesday. No phone call, no IM no nothing. I am lost confused and rather upset. I sent him an e-mail and no response. So why can't guys just say one way or anther if they are interested or not?

so sorry to hear that whisper. But are you sure he's ok,maybe something happened to him.

Oh, I know he is OK, he is still talking to my friend that introduced us.

I hate guys like that. They leave you hanging, they're gutless.

My friend said that she would talk to him, but she is sorta defending his behavior. By saying that it is normal for men and that he is just a typical guy. The too of them are even planning to go to the zoo together with there kids, and he did not want me there.

sounds like he is more interested in the friend.

sorry to hear whisper i've gone thru that too..in fact this guy that actually i feel (dumped) me after 7 months of dating him..he told me he thought he wanted a relationship, but doesnt now..too many issues..then i dont hear a high or hair of him..i think its more and he isnt telling me so, im getting my stuff back from him and im just going to come out and tell him how i feel, then tell him if he ever changes his mind to want to date me again..It wont happen!! he had his chance..i dont need games..

but men can be like that..cant express how they feel alot of times

Whether he is interested in my friend or not, he should still have the guts to tell me. Or not seem interested in me in the first place.


GRRRRR

i know, its hard whisper, doesnt seem fair

Being a long weekend here and all, it would have been nice for the two of you to go to the zoo. It's his lost whisper.

That is what I thought Grey. Oh, well. I guess life goes on. I am just so sick and tired of being fuked over all the time. I just for once want to be in the arms of somebody, that really does care for me, that will hold me and like me just for who I am. For them to run there fingers in my hair and just make me feel safe in there arms and know that everything is OK for once in my life.

He sounds rude to me, you dont need that anyway. You can find someone better, and a better friend too. Good Luck

I have a gut feeling that the friend is no better than he is. She knows you're hurting right now but she's still going to the zoo with him. She had the nerves to even tell you that. Friends like that who needs enemies.

okay...now i have one question. did you at least tell him you was into him? if you really liked him you would have told him And you also have to make it seem like you into him he cant do it alone. but it seems that your "friend" has him

that was my badly stated point.the friend obviously likes the man and vice versa.they both should have the guts to tell whisper how it is.cheer up whisper,maybe they will be mauled by a lion

BUT did you bother to ask your friend if she is intrested in him? isnt she the one that introduced you two. sorry to say this but if a guy not intrested i know you women can tell. But dont worry about it

I live close to the Zoo, I'll go ahead of them and open the lion's cage.

My friend has told me that she is not interested in him any more then just a friend. And trust me I know he knows how I feel about it.

And the lion cage sounds like a good idea Grey! Or we could just meet up go to the zoo and spy on them

great idea whisper... let's do that.

Well, I had a gent, I was seeing for almost 2 months. Wonderful guy, amazing kisser. Called me 2 weeks ago now, to see if i wanted this to go further. Oh my gosh yes i said, I rally want to get to know youo more and see what this brings our way. Awesome he says, just what i was hoping for.Well, I think his live in girlfriend had other ideas ;) lol She texted me and busted him right out. Very uncool in my book and he still hasnt called to even say he was sorry. So, now i think hes with her, out of loyalty ;) and hes missing me terribly as he knows what he passed over.
It doesnt matter what they tell you some days. But maybe you just arent meant to be with him is all.