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Ruth34611's photo
Sat 09/01/12 12:05 PM

I would really enjoy sitting down with a elderly couple who still hold hands when they go for a walk.
I bet they have some wonderful stories to share. Love is what we make it.


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wux's photo
Sat 09/01/12 05:42 PM

i do believe!
i believe in happily ever afters.
i've been told i'm stupid for believing so,
but BITE ME.
i'm sure everyone has a soulmate,
but it's sooo insanely nearly impossible to find each other.
come on;
there are billions of people on earth.
most just give up,
and by give up i mean settle.
i'm sure some do get their happily ever afters though.
hooray for them!


My experience with reading literally hundreds of personal profiles on dating sites, is that you are right, these couples who live 'happily ever after' do exist. They are perfectly suited to each other, their love and affection is constant, uninterrupted, a bliss, their lives are lived in the best of all possible worlds.

There is one thing they have in common, all these couples, and you can check my observation for accuracy: one or the other of the two is widowed.

That's all it takes.

Ladywind7's photo
Sun 09/02/12 03:24 PM

I do believe there is one true "Spiritual" mate.

However.....

We seek with our minds and emotions....
and choose accordingly.......

Never allowing our Spirits to interact before our emotions are overwhelmed.

Jmo




Could you elaborate?

navygirl's photo
Wed 09/05/12 11:54 AM
I don't believe there is the one for everyone. I think some were meant to be single and will never meet "the one".

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 09/05/12 12:16 PM
I have met 3 so far in my life. Unfortunately the feeling wasn't mutual so I hope to meet another one who will share mutual feelings.

no photo
Wed 09/05/12 12:32 PM
Edited by Ghostrider2u on Wed 09/05/12 12:33 PM


I do believe there is one true "Spiritual" mate.

However.....

We seek with our minds and emotions....
and choose accordingly.......

Never allowing our Spirits to interact before our emotions are overwhelmed.

Jmo




Could you elaborate?


Well......If I have read correctly, some of what you have posted in the past.......
you are someone who has truely experienced a "Spiritual" mate.
A connection far beyond the mind and the emotions.
Most folks wander tru life connecting in mind, emotion and body only.
I want all that......
But I would rather not settle for less than that complete Spiritual connection.
When you can truely feel your Spirits mingling....comunicating.
Ask Krupa.....

I believe HE is....Feeling it.....NOW!!!
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Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/05/12 12:41 PM
Thanks. I thought that was what you meant, but I wanted to be sure :-)

no photo
Wed 09/05/12 12:44 PM
You are quite......Welcome!

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/05/12 05:04 PM
I was married at 23 to my high school sweetheart. We dated for six years and I remember the night I proposed. I truly believed that I was in love and that she would be it for me. I mean, I had wanted that for myself. A wife I loved, who loved me, and to begin a family. We spent nine years married and it ended with her deciding that I wasn't what she wanted. When that ended, I didn't think I would never marry again. I just felt that if I did then perhaps I had been wrong when I proposed to me ex years earlier.

I believe that my ex and I were meant to be together for that time in our lives. She has moved on, remarried, and she says she is happy. I hope she is but fact is I am past her. I believe that if I do marry again, then perhaps that lady will be "the one" for me as we grow old. Maybe I already know her but don't know how she feels about me. Maybe I haven't met her yet but there will come that day when we do meet. I hope it's magical. But hey....I have no clue how it will happen.

My best friend happens to be a woman. It's funny cause guys ask if I will try to make a pass at her. Well, thing is, we did have a sexual thing for a bit and somehow we realized we were not good for one another. Still, we talk and we depend on each other as best friends do. I actually looked at how our relationship is and figured that while we care and love one another, we also know that there is something missing that would make us work as a couple. What is it? I have no clue. I just know that I am not in love with her. Still, that doesn't mean I can't love her and cherish what she means to me. What I do know is that I would like this friendship that she and I have to be an intregal part of the relationship that I will have one day with that someone special.....adding in that missing "it" factor. I hope and pray I know what "it" is when "it" happens. Lol.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 09/06/12 01:14 PM

I dont believe there is 'the one'. I think there are many potential, possible 'ones'. Is true love a myth, a fantasy we create in our own heads? Whatcha reckon?


We don't have all the answers for this. Everyone's story, mind, head, situations are different from the next person.

Love is around, it exists. Its in nature, the scenery, the animals, beings thrive on compassion and emotion since the beginning of existence. Its in our DNA to love. Putting limitations on emotions is the most ludicrous thing you could do in life. The world has made even women feel embarrassed to love. Those are the people who need love the most. The deniers, the liars, the fakes, the ones who play with the idea of it when they truly don't love themselves.

And those people will always make excuses and bring up examples of the past in order to rectify their reasons for being alone. And they are not past their loved ones. We don't stop loving someone just because they are physically out of our lives. They are with us everywhere we go. We are not meant to be alone.

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/06/12 01:24 PM
Edited by navygirl on Thu 09/06/12 01:28 PM

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/06/12 01:24 PM
Edited by navygirl on Thu 09/06/12 01:28 PM

We don't stop loving someone just because they are physically out of our lives. They are with us everywhere we go. We are not meant to be alone.




Wanna bet we don't stop loving them? There are people that not only stop loving someone but end up hating them; some even to the point of physically harming them. I don't really hate any of my exes but I sure as hell have stopped loving them and if I saw them I wouldn't have any feelings for them one way or another. I also don't believe that we weren't meant to be alone. I think some of us naturally are and will always be alone. We weren't meant to be with someone. I don't have the answers either but maybe we have a bigger destiny than just to be coupled up with someone. I think outside the box and question the reason that society feels we all need someone in our lives.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 09/06/12 01:32 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Thu 09/06/12 01:33 PM


We don't stop loving someone just because they are physically out of our lives. They are with us everywhere we go. We are not meant to be alone.


Wanna bet we don't stop loving them? There are people that not only stop loving someone but end up hating them; some even to the point of physically harming them. I don't really hate any of my exes but I sure as hell have stopped loving them. I also don't believe that we weren't meant to be alone. I think some of us naturally are and will always be alone. We weren't meant to be with someone. I don't have the answers either but maybe we have a bigger destiny than just to be coupled up with someone.


I think hate is a stupid emotion. Not the word, the emotion. Physically harming someone else is a psychological trait that only can be understood in their mind. Eh...its all in our state of mind. If its open we are ready for anything, even affection. If closed than our mind constantly feels like there is no one and will never be one out there for us.

I think friends mean more than a relationship...not all of us will be in a healthy, loving relationship but friends and family are proof that we are not alone in this world. A love from a friend feels more like home than trying to guess what the opposite sex really wants from us.

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/06/12 01:39 PM



We don't stop loving someone just because they are physically out of our lives. They are with us everywhere we go. We are not meant to be alone.


Wanna bet we don't stop loving them? There are people that not only stop loving someone but end up hating them; some even to the point of physically harming them. I don't really hate any of my exes but I sure as hell have stopped loving them. I also don't believe that we weren't meant to be alone. I think some of us naturally are and will always be alone. We weren't meant to be with someone. I don't have the answers either but maybe we have a bigger destiny than just to be coupled up with someone.


I think hate is a stupid emotion. Not the word, the emotion. Physically harming someone else is a psychological trait that only can be understood in their mind. Eh...its all in our state of mind. If its open we are ready for anything, even affection. If closed than our mind constantly feels like there is no one and will never be one out there for us.

I think friends mean more than a relationship...not all of us will be in a healthy, loving relationship but friends and family are proof that we are not alone in this world. A love from a friend feels more like home than trying to guess what the opposite sex really wants from us.



I agree with what you say about friends. When I was feeling my lowest; it was always a friend that was there and not a lover.

Hate can be a nasty thing but people feel that way when their love has been betrayed or that person has left them. I think they feel they gave everything to that other person and then they literally ripped their heart out. As I said I don't hate my ex boyfriends but I could care less about them. I am sure when I was younger I used that word and even felt hate when the guys broke my heart but now being older; I expect it to happen. I realize romantic love is a farce at best and no matter how much you do for a person; it will never be enough to keep them in your life. My friends and family are the only reason that I go on living as I know they will stand by me no matter what. Can't say the same for any boyfriend.

Fixingme's photo
Fri 09/14/12 09:23 PM
I believe the "one" is the one you make it work with. When we don't follow the proper path the Man upstairs has laid out of us then He make an alternate plan for us. Relationships require maintenance. The more we put into something, the more we get out of it.

ShugahBee's photo
Fri 09/14/12 10:35 PM

I believe that there is really just a "one," but to
get to that one, many people need to try and fail so they can learn enough about themselves just so when "the one" does come around, they can handle that one and that one can handle them.


I agree with this and others but liek he said you learn alot
how to deal with things and how to handle situation
life isnt perfect and even if found a perfect partner
life would still have things go wrong in it
and both would have to deal with those thinigs

and each other ,so i thinnk its more about patients
and careand treaitign others with respect and
being there for them when they need you not when
its just convient ,loving someone
isnt just the happy moments its being stronger through the
not happy moemnts .

just thoughts

nowucme2012's photo
Sat 09/15/12 02:31 PM
I believe there is a "one", however it seems like they are already taken!!!!! Or you find the "one" and then later on down the road the "one" changes into the not "one".

navygirl's photo
Sat 09/15/12 04:49 PM

I believe there is a "one", however it seems like they are already taken!!!!! Or you find the "one" and then later on down the road the "one" changes into the not "one".


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