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Topic: secret (or not so secret) crushes?
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 09/02/12 05:55 PM
So don't expect secrets to stay secrets after they are revealed. Exactly. A word of advice from someone who's dated from off of this site. Never tell people who you are interested in or if you are seeing another Mingler. It adds a whole additional level of stress to a relationship that you don't want to deal with.

WhyWorry Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 71	Sun 09/02/12 06:02 PM
haven't been on here enough to develop a "secret crush" but i'm pretty proactive when i think someones interesting....or lovely, or a combination of both. Though i think this thread is pretty great

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Sun 09/02/12 08:13 PM
i did.. but then i dont count i guess. lol.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 09/02/12 11:39 PM
So don't expect secrets to stay secrets after they are revealed. Exactly. A word of advice from someone who's dated from off of this site. Never tell people who you are interested in or if you are seeing another Mingler. It adds a whole additional level of stress to a relationship that you don't want to deal with. I agree with you both. I'd rather be spared the drama.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 09/03/12 09:01 AM
I couldn't help but notice....Absolutely nobody revealed a secret crush! Well... what do you expect? If someone reveals a crush, it's not a secret any more, is it, it is just simply a crush. Not too exciting, is it, if I tell you I am totally taken by (haha, you thought I'd say). So don't expect secrets to stay secrets after they are revealed. Do you always expect the impossible from your men? You are asking the wrong person...I wasn't the one asking for the "impossible" .

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 09/03/12 09:12 AM
I couldn't help but notice....Absolutely nobody revealed a secret crush! Well... what do you expect? If someone reveals a crush, it's not a secret any more, is it, it is just simply a crush. Not too exciting, is it, if I tell you I am totally taken by (haha, you thought I'd say). So don't expect secrets to stay secrets after they are revealed. Do you always expect the impossible from your men? You are asking the wrong person...I wasn't the one asking for the "impossible" . You know what? you are absolutely right. I did not notice that. thansk for telling me. But to make it absolutely sure... please ask me something possible. You know, to have positive proof. For my peace of mind. If you give me peace of mind, maybe a piece of action will be forthcoming along, by osmosis or something. A guy dreams, a guy dreams.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 09/03/12 09:19 AM
not really, no. I like everyone who I meet on here. I think I am too old for a crush on someone

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Mon 09/03/12 09:22 AM
woah! bster, i 'member that book. anyone and everyone who had absolutely no chance in any of the seven levels of hell to be with you were listed in that book. i think dododavid had multiple listings i believe it was your bestie KC that was the keeper of said book there's a whole chapter on him. we'll see what he has added. i guarantee i guarantee he's been busy adding a bunch of these guys (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Mon 09/03/12 09:54 AM
is there someone or several someones on here that you really like? For me , i have always been very attracted to lady liz and winx in no particular order.. I know we are opposites but we do share some common interests.... of course then theres Pyxxie... really like your pic and your firey (sp?)disposition.. and no nonsense honesty. WOW!!!!

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Mon 09/03/12 05:15 PM
good wow or bad wow? hmm, you know ive always liked you... dont you?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 09/03/12 05:47 PM
woah! bster, i 'member that book. anyone and everyone who had absolutely no chance in any of the seven levels of hell to be with you were listed in that book. i think dododavid had multiple listings i believe it was your bestie KC that was the keeper of said book there's a whole chapter on him. we'll see what he has added. i guarantee i guarantee he's been busy adding a bunch of these guys (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) ha! yes the book lives on....

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Mon 09/03/12 06:10 PM
woah! bster, i 'member that book. anyone and everyone who had absolutely no chance in any of the seven levels of hell to be with you were listed in that book. i think dododavid had multiple listings i believe it was your bestie KC that was the keeper of said book there's a whole chapter on him. we'll see what he has added. i guarantee i guarantee he's been busy adding a bunch of these guys (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) ha! yes the book lives on.... i'm so curious to see who ends up all up on the bster's nuts. i'm rooting for the bearded hippie, colbert look-a-like, who drives a vw van, and lives in a cabin

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Mon 09/03/12 06:11 PM
they all live too far!!!

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Mon 09/03/12 06:13 PM
they all live too far!!! dang here all that time i thought i was just me

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Mon 09/03/12 06:20 PM
they all live too far!!! dang here all that time i thought i was just me ...nope...sure alot other minglers agree

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Mon 09/03/12 06:22 PM
they all live too far!!! dang here all that time i thought i was just me ...nope...sure alot other minglers agree

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Mon 09/03/12 06:29 PM


ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Tue 09/04/12 04:26 AM
they all live too far!!! EXACTLY!!!!!!