Some one that you find attractive but thinks your to young. How heartfully sarrow we meet at the bar and he's sticken drunk but, I say that's ok i've been in that same position and i'm gonna wait until he sobers up.....He turns out to be the most pleasant person i've ever met. We go back to his place and relax and cuddle and talk the whole evening. I'm sure there was still abit of alcohol in our system but his attractiveness was just enough to satisfy my hunger. I mean i'm very paticular when it comes to attraction and dating he just has it for me. Well, we wake up in the afternoon cause I had to be at work kissing and talking when the word trick came up.... eeww I had a filling so I told him right of the bat i'm not gonna be your trick haha he said, your not a trick your a treat. Me being so gullible it put a smile on my face. He brought me back to my car and he flat out asked me so are you gonna call me. I said, ae you gonna call me...he calls as soon as I turn on my car and I'm going to go fill it up with gas. We talk the whole time untill my mother calls her ears most had been burning cause we were talking about her....that would be another story if I told it anywho, I'm now at work talking to all of my coworkers telling them that i'm super excited cause I met a 46 year old me being 28 and all age doesn't matter cause I found him attractive. Everyone was intrigued I could tell right away i'm sure some were not but oh well,.....he's in miami for a week working and hanging with friends and we talk back and forth. I was happy until tonight when he comes home from one of his friends place and desides to tell me i'm sorry but, your to young for me and I could never date you. Totally rejected he kept going on saying this and I said I found you and came up to you....LoL, he said that he came up to me.....rejection. we can be friends he says and I can hook you up with someone as nice as young as you. I said, ok but if I don't find him attractive then I want to date you. Rejected again, what can you say about that......

It would be the stinkin drunk part that would break the deal for me
You deserve better and maybe he knows it

Thanks thats what everyone one is going to tell me BUT....

Attraction has to be mutual. Dont waste your time feeling rejected, the right one will recognize who you are and what you are worth. Move on to bigger and better things.

...thats not what you want to hear?

Age matters to a lot of people. I'm guilty of it, it's better your age than your beauty right? Sometimes things don't work out how we hope. . . And we are forced to move on. Then sometime when we look back we are thankful we moved on.

While it is understandable that you feel bad that someone you want in your life is seemingly out of reach, i'd however think you shouldn't count it as rejection! He has his fixed ideas regarding age in a relationship and it simply means it would be real hard to break down that barrier and make it work between you two!
Don't allow it to get you thinking you're any less desirable than you really are :-) Get a way of letting go and moving ahead with ur life :-) Your match will come :-)

and without wanting to sound like the Pope on sunday, i'd advise you to take it easy on starting anything while a bit high :-). Things sometimes get coloured when we have some extra chemicals in our system :-) Just my lil piece of advise :-)

and keep it in mind, at 28, you're at an age where the whole world is in front of you, you'll find love :-) Remember to acknowledge i told you this, here!

S*** happens...Will happen a lot.

Gotta learn to brush it aside, I think everyone needs a cold spot in their heart reserved for moments like this.

If there is one positive you can take from that, at least you kinda had him for a little while. I guess it comes with the kind of environment you put yourself in. If you want a serious relationship, then I'm not so sure that nightclubs of all places are the way to go. You can tell what they were made for. We all ain't that stupid. Alcohol, sexy clothing, drugs, etc, all together in one place. I'd expect nothing that great to be had by meeting anyone in a nightclub. Unless you are just there for sex, then it's a given, but I doubt meeting anyone in a drunken state is gonna set you and whoever up for life. I'm sure you're feeling pretty vulnerable right now, but quite honestly, nightclubs and serious hardly work together.

Thanks ALL, sounds mutual in all the replys sent. Thanks for taken the time to read my feelings and giving me guidens. I will move on with my life and not plan on being in a serious relationship if I go to a bar or night club.....Thanks Again