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Topic: Here's what I want to know, gentlemen
canubetheone's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:45 PM
wow silk sorry to hear ya don't click on anything u not sure of trust me i know my computers yeah i get people looking at me from other states i just trying to find a mass guy an someone near i think they all ran to the redsox out west now lol

Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:56 PM
Yeah, I am usually careful and I can block them if I don't like em.
Actually, I am just hot, sweaty and tired from the drive up for that interview today, that wasn't an interview, just paperwork.

canubetheone's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:58 PM
oh yeah forgot bout that:) hope it went well yes it was very humid here in boston today as well almost 93 degrees too hot to be in the pool

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:59 PM
"Lack of integrity" --- I think you may be on to something.

REDDRAGONS's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:02 PM
it all depends maybe people are busy??

maybe he doesn't have time to respond right away....


eileena9's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:04 PM
Well, REDDRAGONS, I emailed you and you didn't even read it....

Phxlilly's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:04 PM
I've learned a lot about "do not repliers" on other sites.
1) They arent interested due to your picture, profile, whatever, and just dont have the manners or the ability to answer (see number 3 below).
2) They are already married or involved and just want to see who they can get the attention of and have no intention of actually meeting you.
3) Most importantly I think they are not actual members on the site. Thus they cant email you back without paying the membership so they dont do anything. I tested a few sites by "hiding" a message in them with an IM they could reach me at and I did hear from a few then, but this can cost you your membership if you get caught ohwell
4) Some of them are just jerks and not worth the bother. Let them go. If you had the courage to make the first move and they are the idiots to not take the time to get to know you then its their loss and you dont need that kind of headache (or heartache :cry: )anyway.

canubetheone's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:06 PM
well i been back on these sites just a few months just this past winter got out of a long relationship with someone who im still friends with:) i reply an then when i send picture i get nothing back not even a no thanks or if a reply you don't get anything at all for weeks.. i just think no matter what people should have the curitsy to tell you yes or no they won't upset ya at all....

TheShadow's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:10 PM
The truth is,this is the internet and the way most see things if they don't like your pic they will not respond to your email. Ok back to topic lol Well everone is different so i can't tell you why some do what they do. I just know if i say hope to hear from you and I do. Ill reply

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Fri 08/03/07 06:17 PM
they dont responde just move on. there lost maybe my game.

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Fri 08/03/07 08:02 PM
Why is it "us men" are always lumped together in these questions/accusations as if we were all some sort of insensitive, inconsiderate clones or something? Not everyone fits under your "blanket," believe it or not.

I have sent e-mails to a number of local girls and NEVER got a reply, so I don't even bother with them anymore. On the other hand, people not from my area have been very good about responding.

I reply to EVERYONE except trolls and obvious stalker-nutjobs.
Seems like the civilized thing to do....

BR77R's photo
Fri 08/03/07 08:03 PM
Sounds like you are talking to the wrong dudes, dude.

no photo
Sat 08/04/07 07:58 AM
I said "you men" because that's who I'm talking about :tongue:

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