Topic: Healing for those Abused
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Tue 08/21/12 08:58 PM
Edited by advice4love on Tue 08/21/12 09:05 PM
Tantric Ritual Healing
This ritual focuses on healing your specific issues. You can address the areas of your life you wish to enhance, explore new possibilities and expand your horizons.

In ancient India sexuality was taught, just like math or sports. It was equally important to learn how to be versed in lovemaking and intimacy as it was to read and write.
This not the case today because of the fear of guilt that exists surrounding sexuality today. We grow up with a lot of mixed messages from our parents, friends, our church, and even our own bodies. This can cause confusion, shame, and lack of a positive self-image. The majority of men have very limited knowledge of the female body and this often makes the first experiences for many women with sexuality either uncomfortable or painful (because of their partners lack of knowledge). Pain is not pleasure and pain does not lead to pleasure.
We all have what are called automatic and systematic physical responses. For example when you have cold or the flu you have congestion in your lungs and this makes you cough. This is a systematic response. On the other hand when your lungs are scarred from an illness you may also develop a chronic cough which is triggered by the scarring. In other words you do not really need to cough but the scarring makes you cough. This is an automatic response and not a response from an illness.
When women have rough or forced sexually experiences the response develops for them and they become closed emotionally and physically to being able to fully enjoy and allow their bodies to reach orgasms.

When these or other emotions are not fully expressed, they can create physical stress, but can also prohibit sexual energy from reaching the brain. This will limit a person's ability to feel pleasure.
The emotions that most frequently affect sexual response are guilt, fear, and shame. Pain from any form of abuse, physical or mental, also causes blocks.

This ceremony has its origins in the Tantric tradition. It has been designed to facilitate opening your heart, charging your chakras, heightening body awareness, connecting you to your breath and higher self and much more. This ceremony is for those of you who are ready to embark on the Tantric path.

Goddess Spot Massage

This ceremony is a session that focuses on female sexual response, healing, and awakening of the woman's sexual center and entire system. Sacred spot or G-spot massage for women can be a powerful way to help a woman clear abuse issues and open to greater levels of ecstatic pleasure.
This is a very intimate ritual. The giver pays special attention to the woman's comfort and safety. Lots of eye contact and verbal communication are encouraged. The touch is very gentle but the feeling of healing is very deep. Some women experience multiple orgasms and wave after wave of pleasure. There is no sex, only touch in the ceremony. Women who seek more sensation, want to clear issues of molestation, or learn to ejaculate can greatly benefit from this session. It is also a way to free emotional tension and stress from the body.
With proper instruction, a woman may move quickly and powerfully through the issues that prevent her from exuberantly enjoying her sexual, sensual nature. There is also the potential for experiencing full-body orgasm. Full-body orgasm is a profound and spiritual occurrence that can be transformational and healing.
The work is also useful for simply reducing the tension and stress from our busy lives. A session involving sacred spot work can be one of reflowering; meaning it can take the woman back to the desire in her mind for true romance coupled with the feeling of being worshiped. This can remove negative imprints from her first sexual experience, so that more positive sexual memories can come forward in her life. The sexual system, located in the second chakra, is the most vulnerable to being shut down by our life traumas. This results in a diminished life force throughout the entire body and being. It is rare that a woman has not experienced some form of sexual mistreatment, intrusion or harassment. None of us get ideal information about our sexuality and our bodies. We all -- both men and women -- suffer from the demeaning and violent images of women that are prevalent in our culture. Sacred spot massage begins to remove these layers of distress.

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Wed 08/22/12 11:20 AM
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Sat 09/08/12 11:23 AM
I am confused. Massage can't totally take away the upset that abuse caused. Physical or mental. Never heard of this technique. It actually sounds quite creepy. Not sure if people who've been abused would want this kind of thing.

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Sat 09/08/12 10:20 PM
This sounds like a load of BS to me and is some pervert trying to get his rocks off listening to women discribe being abused.

A reputible therapist would never use this approach.