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Dawnette, LMHO. Get over it or call him. Living in limbo is not moving on.
 
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Dawnette, LMHO. Get over it or call him. Living in limbo is not moving on.
lol Ladywind...I am over it, have been for 5 + years...problem is his parents and other family members live right across the street from me and I gotta keep running into him! We are kind of cool now with each other. I guess we are just friends lol |
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You know, one past relationship I had ended with me asking, "WTF"? I mean, it was so odd how she ended it. She just broke off contact and then (like four days later) she texts me and states, "I guess we are no more? Well, I really loved you and good luck". That was the last I heard from her. Lol. So, this one ended in confusion. That's not confusing. She ended things on HER terms. There had to have been a reason behind it. Clearly she didn't wanna tell you. Yeah. And if a guy did this to you, you wouldn't say that. Lol. Of course she ended it on her terms. I never said she didn't. But when one day she acts like everything is great and then disappears for four days and leaves a text like that? Yeah...that's a bit confusing. But I digress, life isn't worth getting ticked off about and I was over it soon enough. Just a weird way to end things. That's all I'm saying. |
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I was given a choice between her or fishing.
Sure gonna' miss her. |
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Fri 07/06/12 06:54 PM
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You know, one past relationship I had ended with me asking, "WTF"? I mean, it was so odd how she ended it. She just broke off contact and then (like four days later) she texts me and states, "I guess we are no more? Well, I really loved you and good luck". That was the last I heard from her. Lol. So, this one ended in confusion. That's not confusing. She ended things on HER terms. There had to have been a reason behind it. Clearly she didn't wanna tell you. Yeah. And if a guy did this to you, you wouldn't say that. Lol. Of course she ended it on her terms. I never said she didn't. But when one day she acts like everything is great and then disappears for four days and leaves a text like that? Yeah...that's a bit confusing. But I digress, life isn't worth getting ticked off about and I was over it soon enough. Just a weird way to end things. That's all I'm saying. lol How do you know that? If a guy did this to me, I'd want to know why, but you never said you got back to her to actually talk about it. When people keep their distance from others they have something to hide most of the time. Things were going "great" then she ignored you for whatever her reasons are and you moved on. Based on what you revealed that's the truth. Some men act the exact same way too. Two-faced. Wishy-washy. |
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pain anger
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Dawnette, eww, thats awkward.
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Thanks for responding. I was hoping to find some answers to what the opposite of love is. And when love diminished in you for a person and you broke off the relationship. What that process felt like and how it was resolved? Any forthcoming answers?
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Thanks for responding. I was hoping to find some answers to what the opposite of love is. And when love diminished in you for a person and you broke off the relationship. What that process felt like and how it was resolved? Any forthcoming answers? Nope. When I give my heart I have extreme difficulty taking it back, haven't been able to so far. |
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pain anger |
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I am not a person to hold any grudges. What is done is done.
Socrates The hottest love has the coldest end. |
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Thanks for responding. I was hoping to find some answers to what the opposite of love is. And when love diminished in you for a person and you broke off the relationship. What that process felt like and how it was resolved? Any forthcoming answers? The opposite of love is not anger and it is not pain or hate. The opposite of love is indifference. I have not experienced the journey you describe personally although I have friends who have or are going through it and I have spent a lot of time with them. My impression is that it is much like experiencing a death of a loved one. Love is tragically gone and lost. A memory remains. One moves on supported by the love of other friends and family and eventually find another love again.
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I think that is it...indifferent. Thanks for that.
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sat 07/07/12 04:24 AM
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Thanks for responding. I was hoping to find some answers to what the opposite of love is. And when love diminished in you for a person and you broke off the relationship. What that process felt like and how it was resolved? Any forthcoming answers? Honestly the process for me was sadness & aggravation. Lot of crying. I was the one who broke it off ,things just were not working out and other people were being affected (children). It was complicated and the love never really diminished.Felt like loosing a very close friend, never really resolved anything, it just is what it is. Things are better this way and we both knew it even when we were together.I think we are both happier and better off apart  So for me the opposite of love with him is.....weirdness?
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when the love was gone there was disgust and hate.
The disgust lasts forever..... but just like love....the hate fades in time!!!! |
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