Topic: Hello
swt_angel's photo
Wed 07/04/12 02:39 AM
Heeey...

Im couple of days new to Mingle... was interested to meet new ppl make frnds

But I'm kinda up to my ears with people who cant speak properly, either they cant type or spell or its those lame pick up lines... even after i took down my photo i still get weird requests...

Even creepy old guys requesting to be their girl friend! what's with that... is it just me ?!!

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Wed 07/04/12 03:02 AM
i really dont no what the hell im doing lmao but lets see if this works

bb9dan's photo
Wed 07/04/12 03:05 AM
Best thing you can do really to take a laid back approach to it all, you'll get people on all sites who are bit wacky/weird, just remembe. it's down to you to whom you chat too - good luck with it all : )

bb9dan's photo
Wed 07/04/12 03:06 AM
Edited by bb9dan on Wed 07/04/12 03:07 AM
Best thing you can do really to take a laid back approach to it all, you'll get people on all sites who are bit wacky/weird, just remembe. it's down to you to whom you chat too - good luck with it all : )

sorry not sure why this message got repeated !

romeo1975's photo
Wed 07/04/12 04:32 AM
Welcome to mingle and like he said you will get those types no any site. Just ignore that and have fun. There are those of us on here who and not pests and if it gets to bad just let a moderator know. Anything you need just ask

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Wed 07/04/12 08:09 AM
Welcome to the site. Best of luck in your search. drinker

amansingh167's photo
Wed 07/04/12 09:12 AM

Heeey...

Im couple of days new to Mingle... was interested to meet new ppl make frnds

But I'm kinda up to my ears with people who cant speak properly, either they cant type or spell or its those lame pick up lines... even after i took down my photo i still get weird requests...

Even creepy old guys requesting to be their girl friend! what's with that... is it just me ?!!

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Wed 07/04/12 01:40 PM
No, it is not just you. A lot of women are subjected to it on the this site and virtually any dating site. My advice to you is...

1. Use the forums. That way you can talk to people and maybe can an idea who is serious and what they are looking for. Plus you make actual friends easier that way.

2. Ignore or block those users who friend request you or message you in a way you are uncomfortable with.

3. Be aware that it will always be happened, but only you can prevent them by ruining your good time by letting them ruin your day or chase you off.

4. Just have fun. It is a pretty big site with a lot of members, a lot of forums and a lot of thoughts and ideas.

Welcome to the site and good luck to you. flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 07/04/12 11:11 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Wed 07/04/12 11:13 PM
Hang in there. You have to winno the wheat from the chaff.

Try not to let it feel too personal. Even guys get some weirdo's.

Don't feel bad about useing the delete or block options. Most won't be stupid more than once but if they are report them to moderators.

By the way WELCOME TO MINGLE!

swt_angel's photo
Fri 07/06/12 01:02 AM
well thanx for da reply... And i will do jst that.... Take care n cheers... Thnx again :)

Ladywind7's photo
Fri 07/06/12 04:59 AM
Often it is scammers who are the ones who cant spell, dont make sense. They eventually leave you alone. Good luck.